Middle-aged couples, women should not ignore these 3 emotional needs of men

For middle-aged couples, many people think that emotional crisis will happen to women! As everyone knows, men's emotional needs are stronger than women's. In real life, men are generally stronger and better-looking. Even if there are emotional needs, they will not show it, let alone say it. As a woman, you must understand, let alone ignore the emotional needs of men! If a man doesn't say it, it doesn't mean he doesn't need it. In short, being a woman who understands men will not only make men love deeper, but also make you happier.

First of all, what women should not ignore for middle-aged couples is the gentle companionship of men on their emotional needs. This kind of company does not need to be together all the time, but when they are together, women can give men a comfortable space to get along. To be more specific, when we are together, the atmosphere is pleasant, not restrained. In real life, whether a man relaxes when he returns home, or is another battlefield without gunpowder smoke, it can only be a matter of sorrow and joy, and self-awareness. When there is no temperature in this home, when two people are together either quarreling or in a cold war, such a middle-aged emotional crisis is likely to crush a man.

Secondly, for middle-aged couples, what women should not ignore is the support of men in their emotional needs. This kind of support does not necessarily have to be a woman's contribution. Sometimes, a woman's verbal support, an affirmation, and a compliment will make a man feel that being with you is powerful and confident. In real life, many women can't even do this. Even when he is with a man, he hits him everywhere, for fear that the man will not know how worthless he is. In this way, it will also destroy a middle-aged man and make the middle-aged man give up on himself.

Finally, middle-aged couples, women should not ignore the understanding and consideration of men's emotional needs. This kind of understanding and understanding does not necessarily have to be for the sake of men everywhere. But at the very least, women should avoid complaining and blaming men. Especially when encountering difficulties and problems, you must learn to stay calm, advance and retreat with men, and enlighten and persuade men a lot, instead of adding fuel to the fire. In a word, in terms of emotional needs, men do not necessarily want you to spoil, love, or hurt. Sometimes, as long as he doesn't hurt him and can accompany him quietly, he will feel that this day is full of rush and hope. Therefore, as a woman, you must know how to be considerate and understand the difficulties of a man, and help him more, instead of indiscriminately hurting him and saying vicious words.

The highest state of love is actually only two words, that is: no self.

In the intercourse between men and women, when you love someone in particular, your eyes will be filled with the other person, your whole heart will be occupied by the other person, and there will be no space or place for yourself.

Regarding love, if both parties can be so "selfless", it is the most beautiful fit and the most touching love. This state of "no-self" will manifest itself in every aspect of how two people get along. If both parties, when they are together, often have the following three kinds of communication and interaction without self. No matter what kind of relationship the two have, they already love each other to the core.