Whether couples or lovers, can have a long-term relationship, look at these 3 points

The relationship between the sexes, whether husband and wife, or lovers, the long-term relationship is sometimes not based on personal will. Many times, two people must maintain a high degree of consistency in thinking, tacit understanding and balance of getting along, which is the basis for two people to maintain a long-term relationship. And, it also depends on the fate of the two people together. There is a saying that there is no fate. Many times, once the fate dissipates, two people will choose different paths by magic. Therefore, between men and women, whether couples or lovers, if you want to have a long-lasting relationship, you must walk side by side on the following three points.

First of all, it depends on the pursuit of two people. If the goals and pursuits of two people are consistent, it will be conducive to the long-term relationship between the two people. Once two people are in the opposite direction in pursuit, it is easy to conflict and lead to parting ways. The road is different, it is difficult to go on for a long time. This is like a saying we say, you walk your Yangguan Road, I walk my single-plank bridge. In real life, there are many such lovers, or couples. When they first started together, it might not show anything. But as two people grow and feel different, earth-shaking changes will also occur in their pursuit. In fact, it has a lot to do with a person's psychological state. Especially after going through a lot of things, if two people can't walk the same road, or if two people yearn for different things, it is a kind of torture to be together.

Secondly, it depends on the attitude of the two people. If two people have different attitudes towards life, it is easy to have conflicts and conflicts in their interactions. For example, some people like to fight, be brave, persistent, and never back down. Some people like to settle down, or even give up on themselves and treat life negatively. These two people are completely different worlds. It is two people who are destined to come together, but often because of personality problems or ideological conflicts, it is very difficult for two people to get along. And it is a state of incompatibility. Neither can persuade the other, and neither can persuade the other. We often say something like, you can never wake up a person who is pretending to be asleep. Similarly, a person who faces life positively will never wake up a person who is negative, lazy and stagnant. These two people can't last long together.

Finally, it depends on the character of the two people. Whether the relationship between two people can last for a long time, sometimes has a great relationship with the character of the two people. Being with someone with a bad character can't last long. It doesn't matter who has bad character, or both have bad character. In short, there is a problem with character, and this relationship is simply difficult to maintain. Poor character means selfishness, means sacrificing others to fulfill oneself, means calculating, cheating, and deceiving. In short, when a person's character has a problem, or is too selfish, such a relationship will end sooner or later. The relationship between the two sexes is about a balance. Once one person breaks this balance, whether it is good or bad, the relationship between the two cannot last for a long time.

Yes, the highest state of love is to have no reservations about those you trust, to be unguarded, to give yourself up with all your heart, to warm each other, and to live up to each other.