Men Only Want One Thing and It’s Disgusting

You’ve heard it a million times. Men are simple. Men are selfish. There is only one thing that men desire.

Hold on though because what if everything youve been told is false? What if the reality of what men desire is more sinister profound and disturbing than anyone has ever dared to acknowledge? Its not a fairy tale. This isnt a tirade.

Nobody wants you to see this unvarnished unadulterated reality. Lets get to the point. The sugarcoating should be avoided. Not all men desire sex.

Thats too simple. That is too naive. Go deeper. Unfold the layers.

Power is what lies beneath the surface. Mastery. Validation. a need to feel important.

the desire to be regarded as powerful competent and unique. Sex? Its only a tool. the car.

the means to an objective. But the conclusion? Its reprehensibly human. Examine it.

Why do men risk marriages careers and reputations in pursuit of never-ending conquests? Is it merely for the sake of physical gratification or is it to satisfy an unidentified need created by social pressures? a gap molded by insecurity shame and the crushing pressure of expectations. Guys are raised to succeed.

To rule. to remain strong at all times. They follow. They do take.

They store things in abundance. Not because of their monstrous nature. due to their fear. terrified of being found out.

afraid of being commonplace. But hold on. Take a listen before you roll your eyes. Not all women are innocent.

Society is not without fault. Every one of us has contributed. The beast has been fed by all of us. Men have been reduced to caricatures by us.

We have made fun of their weakness. Their tears have made us laugh. Then when they armor up we pretend to be shocked. after they stop operating.

when they substitute physical victories for emotional closeness. Is it truly our fault or theirs? Lets talk about ourselves. Let us discuss you.

You indeed. the female reader. When a man tries to open up have you ever rolled your eyes dismissed his feelings or labeled him too sensitive? Be honest.

Weve all done it. We have all forced men into emotional prisons. Next we accuse them of behaving like beasts. Its thick with irony.

It is blatantly hypocritical. The twist is this though. The enemy is not men. They are not the bad guys.

They are victims. deprived of their humanity by a system. a framework that links stoicism and masculinity. a structure that penalizes tenderness and encourages aggression.

Consequently they adjust. They manage to live. They end up becoming what we have made them into. chill.

Far away. Feeling hungry. Insatiably hungry. for reverence.

For approval. for the brief feeling that one is sufficient. Still doubtful? Lets put it to the test.

The next time a man acts selfish consider what he is avoiding what he is making up for and whether he is afraid of failing being rejected or being perceived as weak. Youll be chilled by the response. He isnt motivated by lust. Its anxiety.

Unadulterated instinctive terror. Fear of being inadequate. A fear of being invisible. Fear of nothingness.

Flip the script now. What if men felt comfortable being soft? To weep. to request assistance.

to acknowledge their loss. The answer is clear: would they continue to seek power at all costs chase meaningless validation or finally breathe and live? The difficulty lies in getting there. Women pay attention.

This has nothing to do with justifying behavior. This isnt about giving in to egos. This is about knowing the source. The decay.

Both men and women are affected by the illness. Its a mess that we made together. Together or not at all well fix it. The lesson is that men are not only interested in having sex.

They desire what we all desire. To be observed. to be respected. to be significant.

Theyve been taught to earn it through conquests rather than connections which is the difference. Dominance not conversation. through stealing rather than giving. It is sorrowful.

Its poisonous. And we are all responsible for changing it. Do you still believe that men are easy? The reality is ugly.

The truth is unsettling. We must tell the truth. Spread the word. This is up for debate.

Detest this. However dont disregard it. Time is of the essence. The stakes are very high.

And you have control over the future.

Women Have a Lower Bar for Experiencing Disgust

Disgust researchers (not to be confused with disgusting researchers) such as Josh Tybur believe that we experience three distinct types of disgust: disgust that helps us to avoid disease, disgust that revolves around mate choice, and moral disgust over things that violate cultural or religious standards that we hold dear.

There does not appear to be a large difference between men and women when it comes to moral disgust, but research confirms that women set a much lower bar for feeling sickened by stimuli related to potential pathogens and stuff related to sexual activity. Consequently, women are less likely to work at jobs such as waste-water treatment, pest control, and janitorial work—and they find insects, incest, open sores, feces, and dirty clothing to be more revolting than do men.

Why would such a sex difference exist?

For sound evolutionary reasons, it makes sense that women would be more easily disgusted. Pregnant women are notoriously prone to nausea (i.e., morning sickness) as a way of protecting the fetus from pathogens, and, historically speaking, mothers have always mattered more to children than fathers do. They are more likely to be involved in food preparation, and they would more easily transmit pathogens to their children because they have more contact, and more intimate contact, with them.

Men Really Are More Disgusting Than Women

And let's face it—men are objectively more disgusting than women.

Bachelor pads have 15 times as many germs as women’s apartments—featuring specific yuck factors such as fecal material on their coffee tables—and men also have more bacteria on their hands and in their offices, which have been documented to be akin to giant Petri dishes.

So, why the female squeamishness about sex?

Why not? Sex can be filthy, if you do it right.

Between the sweat, semen, saliva, and body odor, it is a wonder that women have anything to do with the vile brutes at all. Ovulating women are especially sensitive to olfactory cues, and bad mating decisions are immensely costly to women. Aside from the risk of unwanted pregnancy, women are at greater risk for sexually transmitted infections than men, and the risk of reputation damage can be significant. Women, out of necessity, have evolved to be wary of impulsive sexual activity.

For men, on the other hand, too much prissiness about sex would cut down on mating opportunities, which would work against a man's reproductive fitness. Fortunately, sexual arousal dampens women’s disgust response, keeping men in the game.

And men are not just dirtier—they are more ill-mannered and foul as well.