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From The Ebook: "How To Keep Your Man Away From Other Women" - Chapter Five

Chapter 5: Tips for Keeping Your Man Interested in You, Even If He's Not In The Same Room

By Nelson B. BabsPublished 3 years ago Updated 3 years ago 4 min read
From The Ebook: "How To Keep Your Man Away From Other Women" - Chapter Five
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Keeping your man interested in you is all about keeping him guessing. He’ll soon figure out that the same old tricks aren’t going to cut it anymore, but that doesn’t mean he’ll start feeling bored. Instead, he will start becoming more desperate for some sort of stimuli from your side as well. If you want to keep him on his toes, try keeping things fresh and exciting by engaging in some curiosity-stoking exercises on a regular basis. No matter how much your partner loves you, if he feels like everything is getting predictable and boring, he will inevitably start losing interest in you. Keeping things interesting requires constant attention and effort - which is why it's so important to keep your man interested in you even when he isn't around. Here are our top tips on how to keep your man intrigued by you even if you’re not together:

Tease and Flatter

Guys love compliments, but they love it even more when the compliments come with a bit of flattery mixed in. You may be able to tell that your man likes you by how often he compliments you. However, if you want to get him to feel that all-consuming need for you that is usually reserved for the ladies, you’ll have to tease him a bit. Try dropping subtle hints in your conversations about how you find your man attractive. By subtly doing this, you’ll be encouraging him to think of you in a different light and be much more appreciative of the things he does right. You can also drop hints about what you want him to do or think about when he’s not around. By doing this, you’ll encourage him to view you in a more positive light, and he’ll feel a lot more motivated to keep trying his best to impress you.

Be Curious About Him

If your man wants to keep learning new things about you, he’ll be much more eager to keep you interested, too. Try and keep new things in your conversations about yourself - whether it’s how you learned a new skill, or how you became a different person, in a different person. Chances are, your man will find it interesting and will want to hear more about it. You can also try and get him to ask you questions about yourself. If you feel comfortable doing so, try asking him a few questions about his interests, likes and dislikes, etc.

Change Up The Rhythm

If you find that your usual romantic dates start to feel a little stale and predictable, you can try and change up your rhythm by trying out some out-of-the-box date ideas. If your man is bored by typical date ideas, try mixing it up a bit and trying to spice things up. You can try and spice up your date ideas by trying out a number of date ideas that are different from the usual date ideas you two would usually do. For example, if your two usual date ideas are going to a movie and a museum, try mixing it up by trying out an idea that has you visiting a new place while on a date. Similarly, if your two usual date ideas are going to a restaurant and a museum, try dropping in a visit to a fun theme park, or a visit to an art gallery, or an interesting cultural monument.

Surprise Him With Diversified Tasks

If you find that your boyfriend becomes extremely desperate for some affection, you can try and spice things up by offering to do some household chores. Household chores are something that most men would love to have done, but they always find themselves too lazy to do it. Try dropping hints about how you’d love to have the chores done so that your boyfriend starts feeling a bit guilty about not doing it. By doing this, he’ll start feeling a lot more desperate for some affection and be eager to tidy his act up. If you don’t feel like doing the chores, you can drop hints about how your man should do them instead. By doing this, he’ll start feeling a lot more guilty about not doing it, which will make him feel a lot more desperate for affection.

Don’t Just Text And Call All The Time

Spending most of your time with your man when he’s not with you is inevitable, but it’s important to balance it out with time spent with him when you’re apart. It can be easy to get caught up in the momentum of keeping a relationship going, so it’s easy to forget to make time for your man when you have the chance. When you find yourself getting caught up in the momentum of keeping your relationship going, try and take a step back and remember that there's more to life than just keeping your relationship going. It can be helpful to think about your relationship as a team - you are the player and he is the coach. However, you are also part of the team - so, make sure you don't forget to take a break from the game sometimes and spend time with yourself.

Keeping your man intrigued by you is all about constantly keeping him guessing. He will soon figure out that the same old tricks aren’t going to cut it anymore, but that doesn’t mean he’ll start feeling bored. Instead, he will start becoming more desperate for some sort of stimuli from your side as well. If you want to keep him on his toes, try keeping things fresh and exciting by engaging in some curiosity-stoking exercises on a regular basis. No matter how much your partner loves you, if he feels like everything is getting predictable and boring, he will inevitably start losing interest in you. Keeping things interesting requires constant attention and effort - which is why it's so important to keep your man interested in you even when he isn't together.

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