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From The Ebook: "How To Keep Your Man Away From Other Women" - Chapter 3

Chapter Three: How to Keep Him Close: The Science of Bonding

By Nelson B. BabsPublished 3 years ago 3 min read
From The Ebook: "How To Keep Your Man Away From Other Women" - Chapter 3
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Science has shown that humans need love to thrive. A recent study in the journal Social Psychological Review demonstrated just how much. Researchers found that people tend to trust those who are closest to them, and there’s a good reason for this. When two people share something important in their lives, they have a stronger connection. These in-depth relationships create an environment where two people can grow and learn from each other. This is the ultimate goal of any relationship and the surest way to ensure that your partner will be there for you whenever you need them. To create a closeness with your partner, you must first understand what closeness actually means. The key lies in understanding your partner as a whole person and not just as a pet or property. Keep reading if you want help creating a deeper bond with your significant other...

What is closeness?

Closeness is the feeling that arises when two people connect with each other on an emotional level. It’s a feeling of being close to another person, and it can’t be created by wanting it. It’s a natural feeling that develops over time through a variety of experiences. Closeness means feeling connected to someone on an intimate level, like your partner is a part of you. It means having those deep feelings of love, trust, and intimacy. It can also mean sharing your work life with your partner and having them in your corner during stressful times.

Why do we need closeness in a relationship?

The short answer is, because you love one another. But why? Well, that’s a tricky question to answer, as there are many reasons why couples might want to feel close to each other - intimacy, security, trust, understanding, comfort, support, support for each other’s goals and dreams, etc. All these reasons sound good, but the key is to find a way to make closeness a part of your relationship from the very beginning. Find a way to build closeness into your relationship from the start, and you will see it grow and strengthen over time. You may discover that you like having closeness in your relationship and that it brings you many benefits, or you may discover it naturally as you begin to communicate more openly and honestly with your partner. Either way, it’s worth a bit of effort to create closeness in your relationship.

How to build closeness in a relationship

When you want to create closeness in your relationship, you need to look at it through a different lens than you might normally. Rather than thinking about how you want your partner to feel close, you need to focus on how you want to feel close to them. You can’t force feelings, but you can change the way you feel about certain things. By focusing on what it is that you love about your partner, you can begin to cultivate feelings of closeness in your relationship. It is important to respect your partner as an individual while still building a closeness in your relationship. While you want to show your partner that you care about what makes them feel loved, you don’t want to get bogged down in the specific details of their life. Without getting too deep into the weeds, there are many ways to show your partner that you care about their feelings and needs and are willing to help them feel closer to you.

Help your partner feel close to you

As you build closeness into your relationship from the start, you can also help your partner feel closer to you. This is important because closeness can only form when there are two people in a relationship who are both willing to open up and share their feelings. Simply talking about your feelings and showing genuine care will help build closeness in your relationship because your partner will feel closer to you. It may feel awkward at first, but if you are willing to be honest, your partner will appreciate it. Trust me, they want you to be there for them and want you to be close to them. Opening up and sharing your feelings is a big step towards this closeness.

The key to keeping your partner close is to focus on building closeness in your relationship from the start. While it may feel awkward at first, you will quickly see the benefits and enjoy feeling closer to your partner. Show your partner that you care about their feelings and help them feel closer to you by being honest and vulnerable when it feels awkward. These simple steps will help you keep your partner close.

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Nelson B. Babs

Relationship Tips Center. Author of "How To Keep Your Man Away From Other Women". Learn what you need to do, to prevent Infidelity destroying your relationship. Get the peace of mind your deserve. Read the powerful tips here.

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