The shaping of people's hearts and emotions by "repetition"

When we recall less, our minds are sensitive and tend to consider personal emotions at the expense of others. When we act in vain, we always receive blows and rejections from others, and experience a lot of confusion in our hearts; when we hit enough times, we slowly change our behavior and thinking. If we do not choose to change, our hearts will continue to sink in the tingling, grievance and trouble of the cycle. Therefore, we pursue maturity, stability, morality and bearing, nothing more than to avoid harm, nothing more than to follow the simplest idea of seeking advantages and avoiding disadvantages. We are not as great as we imagine. the so-called nobility is just a mature elder who can easily master the idea of seeking advantages and avoiding disadvantages....

For example, lovers, if one party often sends out the temptation of love, and the other party gives back the same love again and again, then they have made a commitment and will change themselves for each other. After that, if one party's love is hit, after several times he still thinks that this is a normal situation under the condition of mutual love, not an abnormal situation; if he sends out hundreds of thousands of love again, but it is still limited, whether the other party still has love or not, his mind will change, and he will be afraid to give love, because giving means hurting, which is the result of countless experiments. Like laboratory animals, it is impossible for us not to "reflex" things that are repeated over and over again.

As a result, he established a relationship between love giving and hurt in his mind, which is a long process, but it will change one day. He is no longer willing to give love, or even to see the recurrence of similar phenomena. Finally, he reined in and even disappeared his love, and the output of unilateral love could not last. More seriously, perhaps he will have a state of mind in which love is greater than death, and he will no longer have a positive mood for related matters, and even some vulnerable people will lose interest in most human affairs.

Not only that, similar things often happen between people and people, people and institutions, people and organizations, these elements are releasing information to the outside world. The information itself is neutral, but after it is accepted by the other party, it knocks open people's emotions and thoughts, and everything is shaped again. Of course, the output and reception of repetitive messages is a necessary condition for such an effect, and only continuous repetition can make the rules deeply rooted in the hearts of the people.

Of course, the number of repetitions can also be reduced, but it must be accompanied by more and more serious results, which is a more efficient way to shape the code of conduct. Sometimes, in order to achieve a frightening effect within the group, organizers even do not hesitate to sacrifice some individuals to tell the group the serious consequences of breaking the rules, thus quickly transforming people's thoughts, emotions and behavior. it also reduces the time cost of repetition.

Our thoughts are not so profound, they come from repeated communication and from the intersection of conflicting information. In short, others will always be one of the important teaching materials and sources of thinkers, as well as the shapers of thinkers.