How to make people awe of themselves.
On the secular level, this is a law of the jungle.

Because he hates people who use power to overwhelm others.
I hope every adult.
Can acquire transcendent personality and backbone.
At least suffer little or no oppression from others.
one.
In our bones, we like to bully the weak and respect the strong.
I have seen people with a big temper, but I only dare to yell at people who are more cowardly and have less direction in life.
If you are a few steps weak, he will take a few steps forward. He has also seen ordinary people always bully the weak first when doing things, and always think more about people who have talent, backbone and goals.
Not only them, but each and every one of us will consider these, but some people wear a gentle skin.
This is the real world from a secular point of view.
What do I care if you fight an animal?
two.
The awe I want to say does not rely on power, money or control to make people subdued. That awe comes from pandering, which is a stopgap measure.
At the same time, there is no denying that these things can really make people powerful.
It produces complex and contradictory emotions in people's hearts, not only fear the rich, but also despise and hate them, but must show awe and care on their faces because of their needs.
If there is a chance not to rely on the rich, I believe people must abandon them quickly.
Creating fear for others goes against people's habit of loving peace, and it doesn't resonate permanently in the hearts of others.
And the melodious bells and music are always lasting, and no one has the strength to stop loving them.
three.
Awe often comes unexpectedly, like a piece of music or a film that accidentally penetrates into the heart on a street corner.
When we are off guard, it suddenly penetrates the skin and immediately creates the impulse of admiration, emotion and crying in our little heads.
We sincerely admire what each other has done, and he has set us great, noble, unattainable achievements or small but progressive behavior.
There will always be moving scenes.
four.
I often find a lot of admiration when I happen to hear or think about someone's behavior, and then I am sincerely in awe of that person.
Sometimes, I don't like "this person", or other people have a bad opinion of him.
It didn't affect my awe.
The superman in him is far above the mortals and those who criticize him. Without certain talent, perseverance, diligence and wisdom, how can he get great exploits?
Many people around me are good friends who know myself and temper myself, and I often gain a lot from their advantages and disadvantages.
Therefore, I am in awe of things worthy of awe, regardless of status, high or low, rich and cold.
I will not respect more because of a person's high position, nor will I despise a person more because of his poverty and inferiority.
This is a kind of awe that is naturally unforced.
five.
How to make people awe when I ask this question, I am in the mood of skill. I hope that the weak people will not be bullied. I hope to find a strong self-path for you.
It is our nature to bully the weak, but we cannot all blame the strong. The weak have their own contemptible aspects.
Most of the weak people are unable to lead themselves, they float freely in the ordinary life, without goals and opinions.
Where the wind blows, where the current goes, they wander along with it.
The leaves of the trees float and float.
It is difficult to see that they show a strong will to "confront" human nature and adversity, and it is reasonable for people to bully the weak.
From the perspective of division of labor, the strong play the role of leaders, while the weak play the role of pawn.
Whoever has a strong will for life will be able to assume the role of leader.
Therefore, to be in awe of yourself, you have to be a resolute person first, but this is not enough.
six.
Excluding unhealthy awe items such as power and money, ability and virtue are also not very important, but enterprising spirit and independent thinking are important.
Ability and virtue are static state, get state, enterprising, independent thinking, current decision-making is movement state, change state.
The latter creates the human situation, and even fulfills the ability and virtue, and they make the people who come into contact feel the strength and pressure.
No one can pierce them, and it is difficult to resist.
In the torrent of the river, no one dares to jump, and no one dares to trample on the burning flame.
Similarly, the situation created by personal enterprise always has to be respected by people.
seven.
When the water flows, nothing can stop it; when it is hit by the cold, the water turns into ice, and some pointed icicles make the people walking high creepy, but it can be easily kicked off by the people below.
If we only have strength, but not the gentle side, what we bring to others is fear, exclusion, attack and destruction.
If we no longer take power as our own, but use it for the benefit of people, the same power is lovely.
When we know how to be courteous, we are willing to respect everyone's talent, dedication and labor in a polite way, not out of interest, high or low, or habit, but out of genuine respect.
I think even a cold person can't stand the warmth of the spring breeze.
The bird has melted!
eight.
The "sword" that gives people a high position and weight is well treasured in the box, and it will only be used for the common good, rather than a tool to raise the price and bully the dignity of others.
After getting a good "sword", many people could have moved forward and made people respect and love themselves, but they all took a big step back, which made people hate and fear them.
If you want people to be in awe of yourself, you must first learn to be kind to yourself and respect your body, mind and labor.




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