Our Body Others Opinion

Body-shaming is not two different words it is the full sentence for those people who criticize people who don’t have perfect body shape or posture.

People pass on opinions to people about their body shape or size but while passing opinions or comments they don’t think about that person or how he/she feels after hearing the comments, they lose everything their self-confidence, self-respect, and motivation when someone passes comments on their body in front of other peoples, and they are laughing to on them. We noticed that in our society a person he/she has a different body posture is used as a puppet when anyone wants, to make a joke about that person in front of other persons.

Because of this type of situation, the people who are facing body shaming, try very hard to make their body posture perfect become more conscious about their bodies, and do everything that they can do to make their bodies perfect. By doing this one symptom that comes into their body is Body Dysmorphic Disorder (BDD) this is a symptom in which a person focuses on worrying about a specific area of the body and comparing themself with others every time.

This is the reason why most people are getting depressed and suicidal thoughts come into their mind and some people also take that step. A case came out in 2018 of a 22-year-old girl in Delhi who hung herself in a room because she was facing body shaming in the office. One more case came out in 2022 of a 5-month-old married woman of 25-year-old in Chennai kill herself because her mother-in-law was body-shaming her and she also texted her sister to mention that her mother-in-law was restricting her food intake.

There are only two cases that I mentioned, but there are lots of other cases. That is not at all, many other cases have not come out and we can’t even think of how many cases have to come out. Change in the mentality of society is very needed.

We also have to become tough, we should also not listen to opinions and comments given by people, we don’t need to bear all the opinions and comments with us, we should not ever get silent if anybody does our body shaming we should give reply on the spot to peoples, if we don’t do that then they get more carefree and they do that every time. Never become a puppet where other people treat you as they want because in this world it is not good to not take a stand for yourself and against bullies.

One request I want to make you all my readers. Please don’t think you are not you are not alluring by only listening to those few people who don’t even matter in your life. Please never doubt yourself only by listening to useless opinions or comments by the inutile person.

Don’t think you are not attractive you are not good-looking, and never compare yourself to anybody you are very good-looking, you are very handsome.

I talked about opinions and I talked about comments passed by other people. I will give you one suggestion if you want to look attractive and good-looking, you have to think about yourself first if you don’t think about yourself then nobody gonna think that you look attractive and good-looking. One more thing is that don’t try to make your body fit and lose weight because of other people because your life is for yourself not for others. Don’t make yourself where any other person controls your life. “Only change yourself when you want not when others want”.