The headless fly

My mother is a strong woman, she has never been too low to difficulties and setbacks no matter how difficult mother always face it never thought to escape, I think in the mother's dictionary should not escape and admit defeat these words! Mother she is a strict person, she told us from childhood to do wrong is not terrible, because to err is human, when we do something wrong to think at home why will do wrong, later should be how to prevent mistakes again, whenever we do something wrong when she always want us to think clearly after telling her what she did wrong, from what truth. Mother is a person who values dignity very much. She believes that a person can lose money is not allowed to lose dignity. She always tells us that Brown's mother was once caught stealing something from someone else. The man asked Brown to kneel down on the ground and wait for his parents to pick him up. Brown knelt down. But you can't just kneel down! Do you know there's gold in a man's lap? It's about your dignity. My mother told me that everyone needs dignity and that a person without dignity is a puppet. Besides, my mother is a kind person. Whenever she sees beggars, she always gives them money. At this time, I will tell my mother that there are so many fake beggars that ask my mother not to give them money so easily, but my mother told me that I would rather give the wrong one. How would beggars survive if everyone was like you? Beggars would starve to death. We can't help all beggars, but we can help one by one. Even if I give the person is a fake beggar that I do not regret, because he may also have a reason! Who else would want to live on begging all day. So if I learn a little bit of strong, if I learn a little bit of good temper, if I learn to understand, understanding of others - I have my mother to thank. This is my mother, my first teacher.

All these details of life make me have to rely on clothes and food. However, once out alone, away from the family, like a headless fly, everywhere hit the wall. When I realized that my self-care ability was so pathetic that I didn't even know how to peel a boiled egg, my heart was desolate. Let me see. What caused this? Recently, more than a few POTS of potted plants, growth is very pleasant, green leaves lush bright, a variety of colors of small flowers also open lively free. I was worried that if Mom and Dad had taken care of them so well, they would grow too fast for the family to place. Ah, obviously, they never grow very big. After all, they are potted plants for people to enjoy. Suddenly think of the home in front of the two osmanthus trees and a cluster of Yueyue red, has always been no one, let the wind and rain, sun dew night. It is strange, however, that they are tall and verdant, but also attracted numerous birds and finches, and became the stage for the performance and competition of these singers. It got me thinking. Yes, a small pot, or a narrow flower bed, can really give plants a good growth environment? More than any wild plant, it seems, they have been cared for and nurtured by humans. However, the safe insulation of the roof has deprived them of the survival instinct to take root and seek water: the caring pruning has deprived them of the enthusiasm to stretch out branches and embrace the blue sky. Life's spoiled brats -- and so are we -- are the hothouse variety. Our "safety" is guaranteed, our so-called study time is guaranteed, but our yearning for freedom is imprisoned, Our ability to survive in the world is difficult to get exercise, just like potted plants lack of sunlight, air and water, we also increasingly lack of vitality and confidence to support themselves, just blindly waiting for the "gardener" - parents, grandpa, grandma, and teachers, watering, ventilation, weeding, deworming, if not their care, we can not survive. We are too wrapped up and warm to withstand the weather. I think, it is time that we should gradually get rid of the dependence on parents and teachers, whether in nature, or in learning and life, to endure the baptism of storms and storms, in adversity and frustrations to really thrive! I want to say, dear grandparents, parents, you should also think for us, let us try to self-management and self-growth!