Taboo
I Hated Pink.
Pink. For as long as I can remember, the color which made me feel most out of place. Not because of its hue, but because of everything it symbolized. In my household, pink was synonymous with “girly,” “pretty,” and “proper”. These were all qualities I was expected to embody but never truly felt I could.
By Tania T12 months ago in Confessions
Sex, intimacy and black middle-class Christianity in South Africa - a difficult history.
How were views of intimacy shaped before colonialism? Before colonialism in the 1700s, black South Africans viewed sex and its relationship to morality very differently than it’s viewed today. Views of intimacy were largely shaped by the expectations of the extended family. When a young man married, his family transferred ilobolo (bridewealth) to a young woman’s family as an acknowledgement of the joining of families. Ilobolo cemented families together and introduced a bride not only into her husband’s extended family or lineage, but also to his family’s ancestors.
By Viona Amindaabout a year ago in Confessions
Learn from Your Mistakes: The Art of Growth and Wisdom
Learn from Your Mistakes: The Art of Growth and Wisdom Life is a never-ending journey of learning and experiences. Along this journey, mistakes are inevitable. Some may be small, easily forgotten; others may seem monumental, leaving a lasting imprint. Often, we find ourselves blaming, ridiculing, or undermining our worth due to these mistakes. However, mistakes are not signs of failure; they are stepping stones toward maturity, growth, and wisdom. They are the foundation upon which we build our understanding of life, steering us toward better paths and brighter futures.
By Dipak Pawarabout a year ago in Confessions
A Tapestry of Leadership: Reflections on the Lives and Legacies of Former US Presidents
An unexpected melody from a long-forgotten hit can transport us to moments we thought were tucked away forever. With it comes a flood of memories—of places, people, and who we were at the time. This phenomenon isn’t limited to music. A similar effect unfolded at Jimmy Carter’s funeral, where the rare gathering of former U.S. presidents became a living portrait of history, unity, and leadership.
By mureed hussainabout a year ago in Confessions
My Hardest Moments: Letting Go and Finding Peace
People arrive and depart as they see fit. Learned this phrase when? I didn't completely understand at the time how someone could mean so much and then disappear the next second. When I went through it myself, it was a concept I found difficult to understand or accept because I had formed strong attachments to some people. I had the mental impression that I needed to take action to change the current situation. Anything that would allow them to stay, even if it meant causing me inconvenience. I was unaware that I had fallen into this trap. I put myself in a trap that made me vacillate back and forth.
By Hridya Sharmaabout a year ago in Confessions
A Portrait of Grace: Princess Kate’s Birthday Photo Captivates the World
Princess Kate: A Portrait of Grace and Modern Royalty In a moment that has resonated across the globe, Kensington Palace unveiled a stunning birthday portrait of Princess Kate, capturing the essence of her timeless elegance and steadfast commitment to her royal duties. This black-and-white masterpiece, taken by acclaimed photographer Matt Porteous, transcends the boundaries of a simple photograph. Set in the serene ambiance of Windsor Castle, the image encapsulates not just a milestone but a profound narrative of resilience, grace, and purpose.
By mureed hussainabout a year ago in Confessions
Recognise Your Inner Strength: Your Success Lies Within
Recognise Your Inner Strength: Your Success Lies Within Life is a journey filled with challenges, struggles, and unforeseen obstacles. At times, it feels like everything has come to a standstill—life seems frozen, and even though we yearn for success, it appears distant and unattainable. However, these very moments demand that we pause and turn inward, to recognise and embrace the immense strength within us. This inner strength is a priceless treasure, a source of unwavering determination and energy that fuels our journey forward.
By Dipak Pawarabout a year ago in Confessions
AI in Personal Assistants
The rapid development of Artificial Intelligence (AI) is transforming many aspects of our daily lives. Among the most noticeable advancements is the rise of AI-powered personal assistants, which have become central to smart homes and workplaces.
By Noorabout a year ago in Confessions
The Hole you left. Content Warning.
Truthfully I could have fixed this hole in my door right after you did it. However I just was more emotionally weak & stuck by the fact you did it. I always felt and was taught that as a man you should not cause further damage to a woman & if she has damage and you take her on as a partner you should not further damage her. So shouldn't you have been fixing the damage after the first injury? Instead you made the list of issues & damage longer and longer.
By Serafinaabout a year ago in Confessions
Recognise Your Own Existence
Recognise Your Own Existence Your greatest strength lies in recognising your own existence. At times, life may feel overwhelming. You might wonder, "Can I really achieve anything significant?" Circumstances may seem unfavourable, challenges unending, and the weight of responsibilities unbearable. You may feel powerless against the adversities you face. But these thoughts are often illusions—tricks of the mind. Within your existence lies all the strength you need to overcome any obstacle life throws your way.
By Dipak Pawarabout a year ago in Confessions
