Do you pamper yourself to the point of luxury

Sex the City's Samantha attends an auction to buy herself a diamond and pearl ring. At the auction, she competed with others and kept raising the price. When she finally bid 50,000 DOLLARS, she told her friends around her: "I work hard, I deserve it". Samantha was overjoyed when her lover snapped the diamond ring and placed it on her hand. She wished she had given it to her.

I really like Samantha's attitude of self-struggle and self-satisfaction. She is strong, independent and independent. She spends a lot of money on herself, buys the best gifts for herself, puts herself in the first place and enjoys her own happy life. I once imitated her, want to buy a diamond ring for oneself, but what I like to be all I can't afford, I also can't afford to give up, the heart is very contradictory, have to bitterly give up this idea, go home from shopping mall in disgrace. Therefore, I think to be Samantha, a woman who gives her the best gift should not only have the ability to earn money, but also have a strong heart, to achieve the right to say I deserve it, and really love yourself.

However, loving oneself is not only embodied in the single way of giving oneself gifts, it is embodied in many details and habits of life, in many attitudes and behaviors towards ourselves.

When do we feel loved? We feel loved when someone puts their attention on us, showing concern for our every move, our feelings, our material and emotional needs. People who know how to love themselves do exactly this. Their self-love is not selfish, not narcissistic, but always concerned and caring for themselves. This love for themselves allows them to bask in love and live confidently and joyfully.

But it's not easy to love yourself like this, because most of the time, we are conditioned to ignore ourselves. One day, I went to see a bestie, the two of us have not seen for a while, after meeting, we talked very warmly. Suddenly she say: your hair good hair impetuous, how do not do well do? It dawned on me that I hadn't taken care of my hair in a long time, even though I was wearing minimal makeup and dressed appropriately. At that time, I was very busy with work and paid very little attention to myself. My long hair like soup noodle had not been trimmed for months and I washed my hair in a hurry. . You can change to a better shampoo, like Pantene CLINICARE and Sassoon, high-end hair care products. I nodded again and again, there is a reminder in my heart: to love yourself well.

So I know a lot of urban women habitually ignore yourself, perhaps busy, life pressure is too great, perhaps from childhood to accept education, let them see her boyfriend, a husband or children is more important than yourself, perhaps was the cause of the low self-esteem and low self-worth that they ignore yourself, forget to love yourself.

I hope that from today on, you can be a woman who loves yourself and devote your attention and time to yourself, even if it's just for a moment. Maybe it's just a small gift for yourself, or a SPA treatment for scalp rejuvenation, or standing by a sunny window, basking in the sun and drinking a cup of hot tea. . This moment, send yourself a focus and luxury, just to love yourself well.