Am I Really A Non-Self-Confidence Person?

If the source of the problem is really man himself, it is man himself who can fix it.

We have to rely on ourselves for a lot of things we do, including our personal needs. For example, even thinking about trying out a new recipe or picking up the heavy pot at the top of the cupboard shows our self-confidence. These are multi-day jobs, even some people jobs that they do all the time.

So, do these people know their self-confidence when they do these jobs.

People don’t usually notice self-confidence. We, humans, are in such a way of thinking that we always think that we are non our self-confidence about some things. For example, we all think about starting a new business. But sometimes it takes minutes for us to give up this attempt. And sometimes when we’re halfway there, we give up. When you are halfway down the road, several reasons can be cited as the reason for giving up.

Our biggest problem as humanity is giving up before we start working. The moment we think we don’t have self-confidence, this takes destruction in our brains. Our subconscious makes this destruction a habit after a while and says, “You can’t do it” with the signals it gives, whatever we want to do. We also naturally listen to our subconscious.

We remind ourselves once again that we are insecure with phrases such as “I can’t do this”, “I will fail in this job”. When you look back, we can see that because of our self-delusion, our subconscious is beginning to deceive us.

Maybe, the first time we gave up, we wouldn’t have to kid ourselves if we hadn’t given up. Not trying something that I will fail comes back to us with heavy loads.

There are similar examples in everyone’s life. Big things for some, small things for some, but beneath them, all lie these few words.

It’s not a problem that can’t be solved, of course. We indeed need a long time is needed to solve it.

Sometimes we need other people’s approval to do a job. It’s a sign that we’re no self-confidence. Maybe it’s a habit from when we were little, but whatever happens, it’s a sign of insecurity. With questions such as “I want to do this job, but how can it be”, we question the approval and opinion of others, usually our elders.

If they say yes, “I can do this job.” if they say no, “I can’t do this job.” We’ll say. But we are the ones who will do this job, why do we want to act with the approval and thought of others?

Getting help, consulting ideas is a very separate issues, we all need it. Consulting with people whose ideas we care about, having those people is a very good thing. But if they start running your life, you won’t be living your life.

Once a person is confident and goes down a path, maybe everything will be better. A person’s self-confidence, which he thinks is not in himself, is actually hidden somewhere deep, the magic of the job is to pull it out of the deep.

Try something you’re afraid to do once, if you fail, try again and once again. Don’t be afraid of yourselves. You can’t exist in this life by being afraid, taking refuge in others.

Am I A Bad Person, Why Don’t You Respect Me?

I think some people don’t respect me. I think that my life, has no value in their eyes, and most importantly, they don’t see me as an individual. If I say yes to something they want from me, there’s no problem, and there’s no better person than me. If I say no, then things change. I’m so bad, I’m inconsiderate. I shouldn’t have done that to me, I’m wrong. I’m just bad because they couldn’t make me do what they wanted.

Let’s especially think of people older than us. They want something from me. I don’t want to do it, but in their eyes, I have to do it. Because they know only adults have their say.

And they don’t want to admit that you’re a human being until you start a family. If I’m 20 and married, I’m a very grown-up person. If I’m 20 and not married, I’m much younger and they don’t put me in the shoes of an individual. If my schooling, my desire to have a profession, makes me small against my married age, let it be. This is one’s own life.

Everybody’s a mama’s boy. Everyone is a little boy of his mother’s father. But you have to accept that a child is growing up. It is necessary to respect his ideas, his thoughts, and his life.

In some studies, it reveals that the reason people think that they are being used by others, not respected, is actually the person’s own.

I agree with that and also disagree. If they don’t see me as an individual and they think they can invest in me whatever they want and they don’t respect me, why should it be my fault because of the things I’ve done so as not to offend them. I wish it was over with one respect, I’d be rude.

Why are we always wrong? Why are we bad when we say no to others?

I’ve been thinking a lot about whether this is something we can fix. I think it’s something that comes from my parents, my parents ‘ parents were like that. “Girl, it would be a shame if we didn’t it.” it’s a problem that comes from saying. All right, girl, it’s a shame, you do it, say yes, and accept it. And isn’t it a shame for me? And didn’t it be a shame for my parents back in the day?

I don’t want to say yes to everything like them.

I want to decide the progress of my life, even if it is a numbered day, a numbered hour. I want to be respected, I want everyone to accept that I am an individual.

It will be a shame for everyone, but it’s not a shame for us. Only we do shame against others. It’s not a shame what they did to us. I want to change that stereotype. This is not how the worm turns. I can’t do them any favors when everyone treats me badly.

They said to do a favor, find a favor. But I’ve always seen evil the good I’ve done so far. Are people really that bad? Why is everyone disrespectful to other people when they think that he is the most superior person himself?

You stood in your mother’s stomach for 9 months, I stood in my mother’s stomach for 9 months, you crawled, I crawled, we went through the same paths. We’ve been through the same paths, but we live different lives. If I respect you, you respect me.

I don’t want much, I just want you to see me as an individual.

Accept me as an individual.