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The Secret Life of a Single Mom

Double Life of a Single Mom

By Margaret Folashade OlatundunPublished about a year ago 3 min read
The Secret Life of a Single Mom
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Jenna always appears to have it all together. To the outside world, she was the epitome of a successful single mom. At 35, she was raising two young children, managing a demanding career as a marketing executive, and still finding time to be active in her community. She was admired by her colleagues and friends, who often wondered how she managed to balance everything so effortlessly. But what they didn’t know was that Jenna was living a double life.

Jenna’s days were a whirlwind of meetings, school drop-offs, and endless to-do lists. Her evenings, however, were where the real chaos began. After tucking her kids into bed, Jenna would retreat to her room, where she would spend hours texting or talking with a man she had been seeing in secret for nearly a year. He was a client from work, someone she had met during a project that required late-night meetings and long hours. Their connection was instant, and what started as innocent conversation quickly blossomed into something much deeper.

Jenna had never planned to get involved with someone again after her divorce. She was determined to focus on her children and her career, to rebuild the life that had crumbled when her marriage ended. But this man was different. He made her feel alive in a way she hadn’t felt in years. He listened to her, made her laugh, and reminded her that she was more than just a mother or an executive—she was a woman with her own needs and desires.

But there was a catch. He was married.

Jenna had never imagined herself in this position. She had been on the other side before, discovering her husband’s infidelity and knowing the pain it caused. Yet here she was, involved in an affair that went against everything she believed in. She justified it to herself by saying it wasn’t serious, that it was just a fling, something that would fizzle out on its own. But as the months passed, her feelings for him grew stronger, and the guilt became harder to ignore.

At work, Jenna’s performance began to slip. She found it difficult to concentrate during meetings, her thoughts constantly drifting to him. Her colleagues noticed the change, but when they asked if everything was alright, Jenna would flash her usual smile and assure them she was fine. She had become a master at compartmentalizing her life, keeping her affair hidden from everyone, even her closest friends.

The strain of living a double life began to take its toll. Jenna was constantly anxious, fearing that someone would find out her secret. She knew that if the affair were to come to light, it would destroy her reputation, her career, and possibly even her relationship with her children. Yet, she couldn’t bring herself to end it. The loneliness she felt as a single mother was overwhelming, and in him, she had found an escape, however fleeting.

One evening, after a particularly stressful day, Jenna received a message from him. His wife had found out. The affair was over. In an instant, Jenna’s world came crashing down. She felt a mix of emotions—relief that the deception was finally over, but also a deep sense of loss. For the first time in months, she was forced to confront the reality of her actions and the impact they could have had on everyone involved.

In the weeks that followed, Jenna focused on picking up the pieces of her life. She threw herself back into her work and dedicated more time to her children. She started seeing a therapist, who helped her understand why she had gotten involved in the affair and how to prevent it from happening again. It was a painful process, but it was also a turning point. Jenna realized that she didn’t need a man to validate her worth or to fill the void she felt inside. She had the strength within herself to build the life she wanted, for herself and her children.

Jenna’s story is one of many that show the complexities of life as a single mother. It’s a reminder that behind the seemingly perfect facade, there can be hidden struggles, secrets, and moments of weakness. But it’s also a story of resilience, of finding the courage to face one’s mistakes and to emerge stronger on the other side.

Autobiography

About the Creator

Margaret Folashade Olatundun

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