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Please Remove Your Review Of My Book- I Don't Want It There

The demands and stresses of a book reviewer

By Rachel DeemingPublished 2 years ago 7 min read
Please Remove Your Review Of My Book- I Don't Want It There
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This is the third article, maybe fourth, that I've written about book reviewing on here and it would seem that I'm likely to have plenty of fodder from this quarter into the future; if I continue reviewing, that is.

I have to admit that I am becoming a little disillusioned with it all and probably won't choose ARCs to review anymore except where I think I may benefit. Selfish, I know but it seems like a whole lot of effort for aggravation at times and as you don't know how your review is going to be received, why take the risk?

The upshot is, at the moment, I don't feel that I receive much from doing it and it would also seem that unless the review is 4 or 5 stars, the author is likely to be irked at what you write about their book.

I'm never cruel in book reviews. I try to convey my feelings in such a way that I get my point across without tearing the book or its writer apart. I'm not in the business of bringing people down.

However, I will not lie about the book to give a higher star rating because I also have integrity and I'm not giving that up as it seems that there is a grave worldly shortage of it anyway.

Recently, I reviewed a book to which I have given 3 stars. To me, 3 stars means that it is alright. It has moments of greatness with some good points whether that its characters, plot, action, etc., etc. It is generally well written in terms of its flow and I've been interested enough to finish reading it.

It's not a bad book but it's not got the wow factor either.

I crosspost. Yes, readers, I spread my literary self about a bit. I do this in a lot of places: here, Medium, Amazon, Bookbub, Barnes and Noble, Goodreads, my blog. I share links to it on social media. I don't get a lot of traffic but I don't do it for the praise: I do it because I can and because this is easy to do and I want to put it out there. People may read it; they may not. I hope they do and enjoy it but I am also aware that I am a pebble on a beach of pebbles and am not likely to be picked up any time soon.

I wasn't approached to do this review. I chose the book and as I've said, it wasn't bad.

I had a feeling about it though. I had a feeling when I posted my 3 star review that this was likely to come back and bite me in the bum. And I was right. But the review was written and I was prepared to submit it in time for its launch date on Discovery and so, standing by my rating, off it went, through the wires/waves/however the internet works, to be published.

That was a few weeks ago.

Today, I have had an email from the site which provided me with the means to access the book which goes like this ( I have removed personal info as well as the name of the site for privacy's sake):

Hi Rachel,

(Representative) from (site) here, I hope you are doing well! I'm reaching out on behalf of (author), author of (name of book). You recently reviewed (author's) book and posted the review on Amazon.

(Author) is kindly requesting you to please remove the review from Amazon as a goodwill gesture. While we understand it is entirely up to you, (author) would appreciate it if the review is removed since they are barely sorting out their marketing strategy and have not had the proper chance to promote the book on Amazon properly.

Let me know what you decide, of course, this is entirely up to you and we will respect your decision.

I appreciate your time and let me know if you have any questions.

I read this and pondered it for a moment. Here we are again, I thought. Those of you who subscribe to me may remember this:

In it, I discussed how someone had approached me to review their book of poetry but wanted to restrict where I posted it unless it was a 4 or 5 star.

I objected to this for the same reasons that I will probably cite here and that is that my review is my review.

Here is my reply:

Dear (representative),

Thanks for your email.

The whole point of a review is that it is a personal reflection of my view of the book.

Can I ask why (author) wants me to take it down from Amazon? Because I don't think your explanation is sufficient and I'm not sure that it strikes at the core of the reason (author) wants me to remove it.

Have you read my review? I'd love to find out what you think of it. I gave it three stars and engaged with it fully. I also wonder if this request would be made if it was given four or five stars?

I have to ask: What is the point of having an opinion of a book if you are to be restricted on where you post it?

It's also relevant to note that I thought (site) actively encourages reviewers to share their reviews on Amazon. Am I to understand this is only to apply if they're considered "good"?

This is the second time that I have been asked to take down a review I have crossposted by authors I have reviewed on (site).

I do wonder about the expectations of these writers.

Anyway, all that expressed, let's get to the matter at hand. (representative), I'm not going to take it down. I don't think it's right to ask either. I don't want (author) to be upset but reviews are important in that they should be unbiased. Books are an individual experience. It is up to the reader to decide what they think of it.

From my standpoint, I'm becoming very disillusioned with being a book reviewer. It seems that people only want what they see as "good" reviews and are not prepared to accept that their book might not be received well by everyone and I find this sad, that they want to censor the views of those who do not express what they want said about their work.

Please feel free to pass this reply onto (author). (Author) can reach out to me directly too and I'll happily explain my view to (author). Like I say, I'm not making a stand to wound but I don't think reviews should be cherry-picked. I get that it hurts when someone is luke warm about your work - I write too - but to restrict them in their expression of it is just wrong.

Thanks,

Rachel

There are a number of points that I made that I would like to highlight:

  1. The whole point of a review is that it is a personal reflection of my view of the book.
  2. I also wonder if this request would be made if it was given four or five stars?
  3. What is the point of having an opinion of a book if you are to be restricted on where you post it?
  4. I'm not making a stand to wound but I don't think reviews should be cherry-picked.
  5. Firstly, it is just my opinion. It may or may not sway others. I understand that the star rating is an indicator of whether the book is good or not but you should always read things for yourself to form your own opinion. Unfortunately, there are so many books now that trying to be seen above the crowd is very, very difficult indeed. Not being given a chance by the star rating is, I can imagine, very dispiriting; but you can't govern the reviews you are given and to expect to do so is, I think, a very entitled viewpoint.

    Secondly, I don't think that the author would have asked if the review was 4 or 5 stars. I don't. Why would you? And if your book is available on Amazon, even if it is a relaunch, I can publish a review, can I not? That's all I've done.

    Thirdly, a review is a review and where it is placed should not be restricted in my opinion.

    Finally, you can't pick and choose. Everyone is entitled to cite their opinion. You may not like it but a review should be released into the world unfettered.

    We exchanged emails and the representative was supportive of my view, which was gratifying. However, it still begs the question of why an author thinks it's acceptable to remove a review when it is the right of the reviewer to post it?

    Personally, I would never ask this of a reviewer. I wouldn't like it if the review was bad but I wouldn't ask someone to take it down unless it was abusive or untrue but then I think that those would be justified circumstances.

    So, the review remains.

    I don't want to be paranoid but this morning when I woke up, I had an email thanking me for signing up to match.com. My user name is Maryliny apparently. I have informed match.com that I have not signed up for this account but the question remains hanging:

    If not me, then who? Could this be the spiteful retribution of a vengeful author?

    Or some other prankster?

    I'd love to know your views on this as fellow writers as it is not in my nature to be confrontational but if I feel like I am right in something, completely adamant, then I fight for it and in this, I feel I am right.

    What do you think?

    Thanks for stopping by! If you do read this, please leave a comment as I love to interact with my readers.

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  • Test2 years ago

    How precious the young ones are today. It's the "everybody gets a trophy" culture, which is fine when you're six years old and playing a sport for the first time. If you're an adult human and you put your art up to scrutiny, it will and should be scrutinised. It sounds like Amazon are fishing for perfect scores more likely. You do you Rachel.

  • Andy Potts2 years ago

    No good deed goes unpunished, as they say. Trouble is, review culture is now a nonsense. When my car is serviced, I'm always asked to fill in a form. I'm also told by the desk staff that if I rate less than 9 or 10 out of 10, there will be consequences for said staff. But seriously, it's having my car serviced. My satisfaction is related to how little work I can get away with. A 10/10 experience, an outstanding life highlight that I'll tell the grandkids about? Probably never going to happen at Kwik Fit. It's a 7/10 job at best, unless things go badly astray. And that's fine. It's a car service, not a wedding anniversary dinner. Adequate is good enough (I mean literally, that's what it means!). But, no, we have to pretend that servicing a car can be a superb, soul-touching experience. And now that translates into all other reviewing, rendering the whole process fairly pointless for everyone. And yes, I know I sound like my dad!

  • When I read your title, I was like "Oh boy, here we go again" 😅😅 I loved your reply email to the representative and I'm so glad they were supportive of the points you made. As for the match.com, lol, it does seem like that author is being petty 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • I'm going to go out on a limb and respond from the point of view of someone who has requested to Amazon to remove a negative review. In that instance, I had a strong suspicion that the review had been posted by an indexer whom I had approached about indexing services for a nonprofit book that was soon to be published. I ultimately went with a different, less expensive indexing service. The reviewer in question gave our book one star based primarily on the critique that the indexing was poor quality. This was one of the first reviews I had received on Amazon, and that one star was devastating. Now I will point out that the index job was indeed not up to the highest standards. But because I had good reason to believe the reviewer was disingenuous and self-serving, Amazon graciously took down the post. But not after our book baby went for weeks with that sad little one star pan. Now I know that this is quite different than the type of review that you provide, with integrity and professionalism. I too have been approached about revising my unfavorable reviews that I honestly thought were deserved, and like you, I refused. But I guess I just wanted to put it out there that every now and then, there's a valid reason behind a request, and authors should not hesitate to voice their concerns to a site if they believe the review has a malicious or self-serving intent.

  • D. J. Reddall2 years ago

    I have consistently found you to be a perspicacious, insightful reviewer and I find this to be an exasperating read, which must only hint at the consternation that the experiences chronicled herein must have subjected you to, not least because you ought to be able to write what you wish and have your views taken seriously by any author worthy of the name. When did so many humans become so morbidly sensitive and incapable of dispassionately absorbing constructive criticism? Do not be daunted or demoralized; write on bravely!

  • Amanda Starks2 years ago

    I am upset on your behalf, Rachel. Reviews should be a personal, sacred thing between the reader and the work for which they are GENEROUSLY reviewing. Are there poor reviews posted that have less to do with the quality of the work and more to do with the preference of the reader? Of course. But again, it is a reader's right, and the thought of an author asking a review to be taken down ( minus occurrences of spam or malicious trolls ) is a reflection of that author's character, and a clear sign ( to me ) that they should not be sharing their work publicly. I personally would be excited by a 3 star review of any of my work, as usually those middle of the ground reviews can provide the best feedback. Getting hammered with positive comments/reviews all the time ( while nice ) does not help the author grow or change. Thank you for sharing these experiences, because it will reach other writers who need to hear this! <3

  • John Cox2 years ago

    I'll keep this simple, Rachel. I applaud you for standing your ground. Firstly, review inflation of art or product is bad for the customer, and anything that is bad for the customer is bad for business and art, without even factoring in personal integrity. Secondly, social media specifically and the internet in general are fraught with peril for reasons than I care to address here. I admire your wide reach as an artist, I've noted that many other creatives on Vocal do the same. But every additional platform you post on threatens the security of your art, period. Of course, you got to do you, and I'm probably just an old grumpy fart.

  • Lana V Lynx2 years ago

    You are right, Rachel. Authors should realize that once their book is out, they have no control over how it is received and interpreted by other people. People have the right to express their honest opinions about the book. Also, I know that on Amazon books are sold much better if they have diverse, not just glorifying reviews. It shows that the book is real.

  • You are correct, in my opinion. Reviews are for the personal reflection of the writer and supposed to be an unbiased third party view for the reader. Period. They serve the purpose not only of giving the prospective audience a benchmark by which to judge what they might wish to read but also a touchstone for others who have already or will read the book to understand different views on the same subjects, ideas, concepts. This is really important not just to literature, or art, but to culture, and the very essence of the purpose of art.

  • Gerard DiLeo2 years ago

    Interesting, Rachel. How many Amazon "reviewers" leae 2-3 stars but don't actually read the work or bother to leave a written blurb why?

  • Test2 years ago

    No one wants honesty. I'm always getting requests on Amazon to remove honest reviews. With offers of gift cards. etc. I've reported it to Amazon but be suspicious of anything that only has top reviews. Follow your truth.

  • Cathy holmes2 years ago

    Your review is your review. I agree. The author may not like it, but they can't dictate what the reviewer says or where they post.

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