William Willet

Engineering point of view to quantify toxic behavior

I am an engineer by trade, but that came much later in life. Having taken the Briggs-Meyers test many times, I was an INTJ until having my own ‘awakening’ Jan 2011. Answering the questions as honestly as before, the results came out ESFJ. I do feel that the logical ‘stuff’ and ordered thoughts are still there; but the creativity that has come in the past 10 years has shaped the logic differently. I also found myself alone a LOT, and had a lot of work to do on myself. The beginning of this journey started with dating a toxic, abusive person. Releasing that relationship came with torturous, ruminating thoughts. Being the logical person, I had no idea the calculating, manipulative ways I was being deconstructed and exploited. Oh those weaknesses were there from the start of my creation pretty much; just took an ‘expert’ to find the cracks and blow them into canyons.