Pamela Maynard

Vocal gives you a voice

I don't know if Johnny Depp realized the negative impact of his defamation suite against his ex-wife Amber Heard may have on women who are abused but I do hope it will give men the courage to voice their abuse that they are suffering. I cannot honestly say one way or another that Amber Heard ever had suffered any abuse by the hands of Johnny Depp because everyone was so against her and the only video that showed him acting violently was directed at the cabinets in his kitchen. But that video was very powerful to me only because I have been there. The noises of slamming and crashing objects is a trigger for people in abusive relationships. It does not matter if Johnny did not hit amber in that video nor if he never laid a hand on her, the video shows a temper under the influence of alcohol and that is exactly what Amber Heards attorneys wanted everyone to see. The thing is it also showed that People who have been abused can have bad moments and it is really due to the frustration due to the loved one they are living with. When home life becomes a negative atmosphere it can and will effect you. And as far as a toxic workplace that can change how a spouse behaves as well. The company my husband works for is a big part of his abuse towards me. Not everything he does I blame on his work but it was not long after taking the job when he started to change. Maybe Ill write a story about that. After all ,no one say that the people who you spend time with will not have any effect on you. That's ludacris!