Leslie Cane
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Strategies To Stop Your Husband From Divorcing You
I sometimes hear from people who want to know how to stop a husband from either filing for or going through with a divorce. I understand the urgency of these requests very well. I was in the situation myself a few years ago, and I know that these wives think that if a divorce is begun or actually takes place, then the marriage is over for good. There are no more cards to deal with or games to play. It’s over for good, and there’s not going to be anything that you can do about it. So, the thinking goes, it’s better to do everything in your power to reverse this right now before the divorce actually happens.
By Leslie Cane9 months ago in Families
Are You In A Silent Divorce? Here's How To Start To Dig Your Way Out
No one gets married expecting that one day the most painful thing they will feel isn’t anger, or betrayal, but silence. Not the silence of a slammed door, but the kind that stretches across the dinner table. The kind that lingers between two people sharing the same home, living the same life, but no longer truly reaching for one another.
By Leslie Cane9 months ago in Families
How To Tell If Your Husband Has Stopped Caring About You And Your Marriage
One of the hardest times you might feel in your marriage is when you feel the man that you love with all of your heart slipping away — the one that you built all your hopes and dreams on — the one you thought you’d grow old with.
By Leslie Cane9 months ago in Families
If My Husband Is Pushing For A Divorce, Do I Have To Divorce Him?
I realize that there are situations where both people are completely on board and ready to move forward with a divorce. But, these are not the situations about which I'm commonly approached. Instead, I'm usually contacted by wives whose husbands have indicated that they want to divorce (and some have even filed/served the papers), but the wives want to save the marriage.
By Leslie Cane9 months ago in Families
How To Save Your Marriage When You Know Something Is Terribly Wrong
Because I’m so vocal about saving marriages, I’ve dialogued with a lot of women whose relationships haven’t yet reached the point of separation or divorce — but they can feel the distance growing. They know something’s off. And they want to stop the unraveling before it goes too far. And that strategy is exactly right. Taking action early — before things spiral into something harder to come back from — can save so much pain and regret down the road.
By Leslie Cane9 months ago in Families
Getting Your Husband To Love You Like He Used To When You Worry He No Longer Loves You At All
A very common — and heartbreaking — question from wives is this: “How can I get my husband to love me the way he used to?” Sometimes, the spark feels like it’s gone. Other times, he’s emotionally checked out, distant, or maybe you’ve already had serious talks about separating.
By Leslie Cane9 months ago in Families
Does It Negatively Affect Your Kids When Your Marriage Is In Trouble And Your Husband Wants Out?
I know that many wives are quietly worried about their kids due to the state of their marriage. Maybe their marriage has been going through a dire rough patch, and their husband has overtly checked out. There’s tons of tension — so much that you could cut it with a knife. Cold shoulders, sharp sighs, dirty looks, and silence at dinner are just some examples of what these wives experience. Many wives are wondering two things:
By Leslie Cane9 months ago in Families
How A Wife Can Lure Back A Runaway Husband
By: Leslie Cane: Since I often write about saving marriages, regaining the love and spark in your marriage, and restoring intimacy and closeness, I’m often asked what is the best way to react or proceed when you know that your husband wants to leave. The answer to this will greatly depend upon the situation, but I hope to give you options, ideas, help, and support in this article.
By Leslie Cane9 months ago in Families
Ways To Ensure You Will Get Back Together With Your Husband
If you're asking wondering about how to ensure the survival of your marriage, I have to assume that you're either split up or are considering taking a break or divorce. Depending on where you are on this spectrum (and how receptive your partner, boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, or wife is to you), this process may be easier or harder and may take longer or be a short process. But no matter where you are, the methods for reuniting are the same. Getting back together really requires two things, which you can achieve by taking baby steps until you get the relationship back where you want it. I'll discuss this process in this article.
By Leslie Cane9 months ago in Families
