What does emotionally unavailable really mean?
I just read a wonderful article about what being emotionally unavailable really means... and I feel personally attacked.
The article begins with ... Many emotionally unavailable people have a knack for making you feel great about yourself...let me stop you right there... Why is it not enough for most people to accept the experience of feeling really great about yourself in the moment and that be it? Why can you not appreciate the feeling and move on? Why do you blood sucking energy draining monsters have to have more, and then when you don’t get what you want, feel the need to label other people “emotionally unavailable”. Why do you somehow feel entitled to feel more than the good feeling in the moment and if you don’t get what you want, be negative, judgy and then needlessly label a person who has just made you feel so good about yourself?
