Cody Miller

On Liking and Loving

On Liking and Loving - “This is like a dance; we need to be in-step.” This was spoken to me recently by a woman sitting across the table in a coffee shop. We had been on 5 dates at this point and we were in the midst of a difficult and heavy conversation about our future. This conversation essentially boiled down to: she’s not sure if she is into me, or, it should be noted, what she is looking for period. It got me thinking about romantic feelings, and I set out in my thinking to answer a question - can you fall in love with someone without falling in like with them?