Brandi Dexter
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Writing stories is a way to express my unfiltered feelings and advice.
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Nude Next Door Documentary
Nude Next Door is on ABC iview is about OnlyFans and the world of online porn. I was so shocked an ABC journalist messaged me out of the blue and managed to find my name. Apparently someone who went the same high school as me said i had an Only Fans account and she wanted to find more about me & my story. I feel it was a really great opportunity to take but i was never in the media industry and i feel so nervous filming with a lot of nerve wracking questions. I was so brave to make my own choice against my mother's wishes because my story would relate to so many young people who are financially struggling and they do not want to ask their parents for money. Therefore, they jump into sex work because of this.It was psychologically stressful doing sex work online because many young people like me have to choose between a good relationship with my family or making a lot of money becoming more career oriented by doing online sex work which many parents don't agree on their choice of income.
By Brandi Dexter3 years ago in Journal
" Go and get a job " does not help
I had zero confidence looking for work.I thought no one would hire me. I was told by my mother at the age of 16 " You don't need a job , you need to focus on your studies". The most idiotic advice ever. I was jealous of the teenagers in my grade working at Mc Donalds or any fast food chain. My dad said i would get sacked from every job. Pretty ableist and rude of him anyways. I find my mums advice idiotic because working from a young age gives people wisdom and knowledge to work in other jobs as teenagers leave school.
By Brandi Dexter3 years ago in Filthy
Seeking Arrangement
Well in October i went on Seeking Arrangement.I was dry on money. As an underemployed disabled person i really needed some income. It's not fun being under-employed and receiving disability allowance. I hated it. I did not want to ask my parents for money. I could go back on OnlyFans but it was too awkward to buy more lingerie and sex toys when my finances were limited. Also to shoot more content at home would be super awkward and it would cause ramifications with my mother who would never agree with the idea because she dislikes the idea of young people doing sex work whenever if it's online or in person meet ups.
By Brandi Dexter3 years ago in Journal
Ramona Singer's moments
Ramona Singer grew up outside of NYC but grew up in the country in New York state. She had eastern european parents and her parents relationship were strained until the day she died. She moved to NYC in the 1980's and worked in fashion. Focused on her career because she wanted to get out of toxic household.Her mother was stuck in an abusive relationship and her mother had babies young. Her mother was a housewife. She wanted to leave her husband but she could'nt because she did not have the fianances to do so. She was so unhappy.
By Brandi Dexter3 years ago in Humans
Child abuse
Nobody should go through this. My father hit me with a belt when i was 13. It's was technically child abuse.I felt upset and i had trauma and pain. I go to bed at night time. I don't care when people say I shouldn't put this up on social media because this is an experience no body should go through. It was 2011. I wish child protection services got involved. Headspace told me in 2016.No legal action was taken people don't know what it feels like because you have never experienced it. Psychology effects into adulthood can be harming.
By Brandi Dexter3 years ago in Families
Dealing with ableist women part 1
Sometimes I do not remember things straightway , it takes me a decade or a few years to remember them. I felt bullied. My mum thought this friend was a nice person. Let’s call her Bernadette. She gave me a best friend necklace in 2007. In my opinion I think best friend necklaces are a load of bullshit . I do not need to have a best friend. Bernadette was a quiet girl and excelled in religious studies at school. Her parents were nice people.
By Brandi Dexter3 years ago in Humans
Dealing with ableist women part 2
I even went to a psychic called Mariam to vent out and she tells me what she has to say .I was very unfiltered and she said I was depressed and showed me a card that had a visual description of a person showing depressed and upset body language.Mariam claimed that Sam blamed my mental health issues for not getting along with her.I wanted to move to Queensland , while Sam was nagging me to stay with her.It was horrible to blame my health issues for not getting along with her.
By Brandi Dexter3 years ago in Humans
The effects on slut shaming
I cried reading an article about slut shaming and how slut shaming have harmful effects on young women and older. Because this reminds me of a housemate of mine who triggered my memories. I think slut shaming is digusting. I remember watching MAFS , many people thought Olivia was doing revenge porn. She was'nt doing revenge porn because the image was not from a paywall on OnlyFans or steal it from a OnlyFans page. It was used to bully her. The image was from Dom's social media. Dom had no problem people seeing the image , but it was used to gossip about her.
By Brandi Dexter3 years ago in Humans
Growing up with a self centred father
I had the most happiest childhood when my parents were together and my granny visited Australia. He started to become more cold and unloving when he left my mum to marry a younger women who was about 10 years and half younger than him. He was more focused on pleasing a younger lady. Married her overseas and she had a baby with him so quick.
By Brandi Dexter3 years ago in Families
The Australian Legal System
In Australia the two main sources of law are the parliament and the Courts. The parliament takes responsibility making most of the laws. This is civil law. They use statute law, and this is when elected politicians can have the power to make laws that can be applied in the federal or state parliament level. The parliament can dictate authority to others to set up legal rules. The parliament can make legislation. They can have power to create laws unlike the court.
By Brandi Dexter3 years ago in Criminal
dealing with an ableist woman part 4
She claimed that everyone in the church knows that Bridget was a bad person and Bridget never invited her over to her house which was like 15 minute drive from hers. She bought Bridget a expensive car.She always said in her tarot cards that Bridget will be in big trouble with the police and she will get her money back , also she said that Bridget will try to be Sam’s best friend again but I will not allow her back into her life again. The bizarre twist was that her cancer will grow back in Jail with the horrible food.
By Brandi Dexter3 years ago in Humans
