Alex Farnando
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I grew up in rural Appalachia, surrounded by stories, tradition, and the beauty of mountain life. I share humorous tales, heartfelt stories of love and affection, and compelling historical documentaries.
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The Joy of Letting Go of Comparison
Have you ever looked at someone else’s life and felt like you’re not doing enough? Maybe you saw a friend get better grades, someone on Instagram looking perfect, or a classmate winning an award, and suddenly you felt like you weren’t good enough?
By Alex Farnando8 months ago in Motivation
The Secret of the Glowing Collar
Ten-year-old Zayan lived in a peaceful village tucked between rolling green hills and thick shadowy woods. His days were mostly simple—school, helping his parents, and playing cricket with his friends. But one ordinary afternoon turned into something magical.
By Alex Farnando8 months ago in Humor
Borderline Hearts
Elena stood at the edge of the old stone bridge, the cold wind tangling her hair, her heart thundering with a mixture of excitement and fear. The city lights shimmered across the river, whispering promises of change. For years, she had lived carefully, hiding behind walls built from silent heartbreaks and unseen scars. Tonight, those walls trembled.
By Alex Farnando8 months ago in Fiction
A Nation Divided by Conflict
Introduction Sudan, once the largest country in Africa by landmass, has endured one of the most protracted and devastating series of civil wars in modern history. The Sudanese civil conflict is not a single war, but rather a chain of interconnected struggles involving deep-rooted ethnic, religious, political, and economic divisions that date back to colonial rule and beyond. These wars have shaped not just the political geography of the region but the lives of millions—through displacement, violence, famine, and loss.
By Alex Farnando8 months ago in History
The Hour That Changed Everything
It was a mild spring afternoon, and the scent of fresh rain lingered in the air. Trees outside were beginning to bloom, and birds sang melodies that echoed through the open windows. The Mallard home was quiet, heavy with an anticipation that could not yet be named.
By Alex Farnando8 months ago in Psyche
30 Days of Gratitude: How Saying ‘Thank You’ Changed My Life
Thirty days ago, I found myself trapped in a cycle of stress, negativity, and exhaustion. You know those days when nothing seems to go right? When you wake up already tired, the to-do list feels endless, and even small inconveniences start to feel overwhelming? That was my life. Between work pressures, personal responsibilities, and trying to keep everything afloat, I was emotionally drained. I couldn’t remember the last time I genuinely felt joy. Everything felt heavy—my thoughts, my energy, even my smile. One evening, scrolling aimlessly through articles in search of inspiration or distraction, I stumbled upon something simple yet intriguing: a 30-day gratitude challenge. The idea was basic—write down three things you're grateful for every day. At first, I rolled my eyes. Could something so small really make a difference? But part of me was desperate for change, and I figured I had nothing to lose. So, the next morning, I grabbed a blank notebook, scribbled the date at the top, and listed three things I was thankful for. My first entry? “1. Coffee. 2. A warm bed. 3. My cat purring beside me.” Nothing deep. Just honest. That was Day One. Initially, the practice felt forced, like I was pretending to be positive. I’d sit there, pen in hand, trying to think of things that didn’t sound repetitive or trivial. On particularly hard days, I struggled. But I stayed committed. I reminded myself that this wasn’t about impressing anyone—it was about shifting my focus. Around Day Five, I noticed something subtle. I was no longer just writing down moments at the end of the day. I was starting to look for them throughout the day. I'd pause during lunch to appreciate the warmth of the sun, or smile when a coworker cracked a silly joke. My brain was rewiring itself to seek out the good instead of defaulting to the negative. By the end of the first week, the world seemed a little brighter—not because my problems disappeared, but because my perspective started to change. I began to appreciate things I’d long taken for granted: clean water, kind messages from friends, the quiet hush of early mornings. These weren’t earth-shattering moments, but they were real. And they mattered. As the days passed, gratitude became less of an exercise and more of a lifestyle. I wasn’t just writing in a journal—I was living in a state of thankfulness. The small act of pausing and saying "thank you," whether silently or aloud, had a ripple effect. My moods improved. I was less reactive. I approached setbacks with more patience and relationships with more tenderness. One powerful moment came on Day 17. I had a rough day—tight deadlines, a missed appointment, and a personal disagreement. Old me would’ve spiraled into frustration. But that evening, as I sat with my journal, I challenged myself to find three good things anyway. It took effort, but I wrote: “1. My coworker covered a task for me. 2. I got home safely. 3. I’m learning how to handle tough days with grace.” That moment proved to me that gratitude isn't about pretending everything is fine—it's about acknowledging the good even when it feels hidden. By the final week, something amazing had happened. I no longer needed to “look” for things to be thankful for—they were everywhere. I noticed birds singing during my walk to work. I cherished genuine conversations. I even started saying “thank you” more often to people around me—at the grocery store, on the phone, at home. And I meant it. Gratitude changed how I interacted with others. I found myself appreciating people more, telling them when I noticed their kindness or efforts. My relationships began to feel warmer, more connected. It’s incredible what a simple “thank you” can do—it acknowledges someone’s presence, their value. And it feeds a sense of belonging, both for you and for them. When Day 30 arrived, I reflected on the journey. What began as a hopeful experiment became a transformative experience. Gratitude didn’t erase my struggles, but it shifted how I carried them. Instead of focusing on what was missing or what was going wrong, I trained my mind to recognize what was already good—and that made all the difference. Now, even though the challenge is officially over, the habit remains. Gratitude has become woven into my daily life—like breathing. Some days, I still write in my journal. Other days, I simply pause and smile at the little things: a kind word, a warm meal, a quiet moment to myself. If you're reading this and thinking, “This sounds too simple to work,” I hear you. I was skeptical too. But sometimes, it’s the simplest practices that hold the greatest power. You don’t need to wait for your life to get better before you feel better. Gratitude can be the doorway to joy, even in the middle of chaos. Start small. One thing a day. It could be as simple as, “I’m grateful for this breath.” And from there, watch how your world begins to shift—not because it changes, but because you do.
By Alex Farnando8 months ago in Motivation
