Natalie Goldberg's Writing Down the Bones Deck Prompts -Let's talk about teeth. Mention those incisors and everyone has a story. Tell it.
When I was a child, my mother took us to the dentist twice a year. There were four of us for my first ten years, and then we had a fifth brother. Most of the time, no trauma, until the day the dentist said that I needed to have a procedure.
I don't remember much about what was supposed to happen, but it meant the doctor would give me "laughing gas" to assist with the procedure. To make me more comfortable.
Well, that day came along and I bit that dentist. The story told is that he would no longer take me as a patient in his office. My mother then took us to see a children's dentist. A program that only worked with children.
After that experience, I was afraid of the dentist and would do my best to get out of going for many years. And because of that, I had cavities that needed to be fixed over the years.
Then, in my mid-twenties, things changed as I started to be concerned about taking care of my teeth again. And my new dentist, I confessed to that I was having anxiety over seeing him. He was great as step by step, he would walk me through the visit. Letting me know every next move.
No longer did I have anxiety over going to the dentist, and that is the way it is for me with my two checkups per year in my seventies now. I have not needed a procedure in a very long time. Despite having diabetes, and have to take a pre-med for heart issues.
My teeth look good, and I have no worries about my mouth. They always tell me that I am doing a good job, and I go on my way until the next time. My children have been fortunate as well, with my son needing braces as a young boy, but now nothing.
Natalie Goldberg's Writing Down the Bones Deck Prompts - I used to long to be a dentist. It just seemed like a good idea. Regular hours, white coat, helpful occupation. Only later did I find out the dread people have of going to the dentist's office. Tooth doctors have some of the highest suicide rates. That means there is energy here that you can mine. Go for it.
I never wanted to be a dentist.
Maybe a hygienist
It never sounded like a good idea.
So glad that this for me is an over-it era.
I brush, I floss, and at appointments, I breath
I gave up popcorn to avoid chipping teeth.
I love to laugh and smile and nice teeth are a win
At the dentist, I am thankful for no stress when checking in!
About the Creator
Denise E Lindquist
I am married with 7 children, 28 grands, and 13 great-grandchildren. I am a culture consultant part-time. I write A Poem a Day in February for 8 years now. I wrote 4 - 50,000 word stories in NaNoWriMo. I write on Vocal/Medium daily.


Comments (6)
I've never liked the dentist. It may have something to do with the fact that my mother never took me to one. The first dentist I saw was when I was 13, my dad had my stepmom take me.
Thank you for sharing your dental journey so openly. It's amazing how a kind, patient dentist can help heal old fears. Your story is relatable and inspiring!
So glad you stopped biting the dentist's. My wife (ex-wife, whatever she is at the moment) was a dental hygienist. She stopped because of two aids she had. Now, at the tender age of 59, she is going to go back to recertify.
Hahahahahahahahaha omgggg, you bit the dentist! That's soooo hilarious! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Best wishes Dentist ❤️
I used to be terrified of the dentist as a child. I would worry myself sick when it was time for my check up. Thankfully, I got over my fear and I don't hate it now.