I First Approached Him

Is it considered a sin when a girl approaches the boy first?

Is it necessary that a boy should always take the first step?

Is there any kind of rules which states that only boys should approach the girls first?

And is it even fair for the girls who have pure feelings for the boy?

I really don’t understand why the girls are still being dominated and their feelings are being neglected.

I don’t think it’s important to make first attempt always by the boys only.

Everyone must consider that girls are sensitive with stronger emotions as compared to the boys.

To dominate and to ignore her feelings should not be considerable.

All girls have a right to take a first step and express their feelings towards someone.

But it’s not always important for the boys to accept the proposal.

A boy can step back if he is not ready or happy with the attempt made by a girl at the very beginning.

I couldn’t understand why the boys pretend to have same feelings during that time.

It’s very easy for the boy to pretend and act as if he loves the girl.

But the girl keeps on loving him more and more and get attached more day by day.

She has her own value but totally ignores all of them in front of the boy she loves.

But she is unknown about her value being less for him.

Yeah, it’s obvious that he became superior cause he was not the first to make an attempt.

But I don’t think the value and meaning of love and emotions differs when approached first by girls.

The boy would have cared a lot, talked nicely, tried to understand the feelings and emotions of his girl if he was the one to take a first step.

But he never understands that the girl is doing the same as she was the first one.

It’s been very difficult for the girl being ignored and worthless from the boy who has her whole heart and whom she loves unconditionally.

She listens everything keeping her ego aside but that doesn’t remain the same everyone.

It’s true that she feels bad and gets hurt but she immediately starts talking to him nicely after pouring all her pains and heart breaks.

For her, her love and the bond between them is the most important of all but she never ignores and moves back from building up her career.

Hello everybody out there! There shouldn’t always be a boy to make a first attempt. Girls also have the same feeling and can express it to the person she loved. I used to think those boys are the luckiest who gets proposal from the girls. It's because a girl who has loved someone with a pure feeling never fails to provide the love and care as same as his mother. But now, my opinion has been proved meaningless and worthless. The girl seems to lose her value if she took a first step and expressed her feeling first to someone. What kind of equality is this? Why are girls making first attempt aren’t respected and considered worthy? Is it fair to hurt someone who has pure intension and true feeling for someone? In this world, everyone is career oriented but everyone who are career oriented are not single. Every dream can be turned into reality and every goal can be achieved when you have good and two-way communication with your partner. Partners are meant to be together from the lowest to the highest point of life. There should be proper and regular communication between the partners. They should start the day by greeting “Good Morning” and end the day by sharing everything that takes place during the day and greeting “Good Night” to each other. The habit of sharing everything to each other lowers down the stress and enhances healthy relationship.

Through this article, I want to request all of you please don’t ever mistreat your partner and make him/her cry. He/she may consider it for a long time in the hope of making everything right but no one will know and notice that he/she is destroying himself/herself physically and mentally. It's not easy and not even imaginable for a boy/girl to lose someone he/she loved without any selfishness and bad intentions. So, please take proper care of your loved ones and never let them down in a way they destroy themselves physically and mentally.