10 Things Every Man Should Know Before Sex

Being intimate is a pretty daunting task with the high societal pressures and myths over it. To establish meaningful relationships and improve your sexual life, here are ten essential pieces of information that every Indian man should know before he decides to sleep with someone.

1. Confidence is the Key

Confidence is highly required in any task, whether it is sex or not. You need confidence to carry out the act comfortably. Ensure that you are the king of the bedroom by practicing self-confidence. Who else will help but you?

Confidence is one of the most likable qualities a person can have. Coming to sex, being confident and comfortable in your own skin shows the other partner that you are not insecure about a thing, thus building an attraction-some environment for the both. But then, and now, it's easy to confuse between confidence and arrogance. Blaring arrogance can be the biggest turn-off; hence, coming to sex should be with humility and respect to the feelings of your partner.

2. Size Isn't Everything

However, one of the most operative myths is that size matters. Size has little to do with sexual prowess, and sexual satisfaction is much more determined by the emotional connection between partners or between a man and his partner. Instead of trying to be obsessed with size, try working on a meaningful relationship and practice. Knowing what a lover wants and learning how to openly communicate with a lover can enhance a person's experience sexually.

3. Importance of Lubrication

This is one of the most overlooked attributes of sexual intercourse. Lubrication will make both parties feel comfortable and pleasurable in sexual acts. You may use either a water-based or silicone-based lubricant that reduces friction, thus making your intercourse feel nice. It is not painful to be intimacy-friendly and include lubrication. This is one easy way to enhance pleasure.

4. Patience is a Virtue

In intimacy, the above dictate would hold. Satisfaction in sexual experiences would be missed if you rush. Take your time to learn what makes your other half happy. Enjoy every moment; intimacy is a journey, not just a destination. With mutual satisfaction in mind, mutual love can develop as well.

5. The Art of Foreplay

Foreplay is not about waiting for something to happen, but it is a part of making love. It gets the ball rolling by creating anticipation and arousal, making having a hot encounter with your partner that much easier. Use this as an opportunity to find out where and how your partner likes to be touched. Noticing and fulfilling what they need and want sets up the stage for a more fulfilling sexual experience. Foreplay can also increase emotional intimacy.

6. Communication is Key

Fulfilling intimacy goes with effective communication. Even before having sexual intercourse, communicate your likes, dislike, and boundaries and what you want and what you don't want to your sexual partner. This opens up even deeper understanding and connects both of them. When you become open regarding what you like and what you can tolerate, you can have more satisfying acts. And it is a shared experience between partners; proper communication will make you able to navigate through intimacy effectively.

7. Hygiene Matters

Proper hygiene is in order for an enjoyable sexual experience. Cleanliness is a gesture of showing respect to your lover, and very important to do before intimate encounters. This is the way of creating the right environment for everyone while improving an experience. Shower, freshen up, and make sure you are ready enough for your lover; it may also reflect upon whether you cherish their comfort and fun like you do yours.

8. Be Light on the Clitoris

The most important key to intensification of pleasure during intimacy is the understanding of the significance of the clitoris. It is a very sensitive pleasure zone and has to be approached with care. Light and sensitive activation can make all the difference and open the subject's gates to intense pleasure. Pay attention to her reactions; this will lead to being more fulfilling for both parties as there is going to be a closer relationship.

9. Keep Calm and Unruffled

Of course, one can be anxious about intimate moments a little, but trying to stay calm during the moment can also make it so much better. Focus on deep breathing, and being in the moment will not hurt too. Remember that this is something shared-intimacy is not just the act, but a connection built. A lot more relaxed mindset toward intimacy will help ease the tension created, providing for a more pleasurable experience for both partners.

10. Safe Sex Practices Always Have the Upper Hand in Sexual Relations

The point is that when it comes to sexual relations, safety should always be a number one priority, as condoms not only prevent unwanted pregnancies but also sexual transmitted infections. Open discussion with your sexual partner about safe sexual practices creates trust for your well-being and shows you care. Therefore, the culture of safety can be a measure that can help you to provide more enjoyable sexual activities with less tension with your sexual partner.

Conclusion

Equipped with this information, you can begin your journey of sexual intimacy. On both sides, the guiding forces must be trust and respect. At each step, discuss communication, pleasure, and safety. This can be a relationship that makes both of you so happy and highly rewarding that you can even make it more luscious. Accept these guidelines, and your intimate relationships will grow.