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One, for love.

This is a "noble" reason, and many mistress are proud of it. A woman may love a man for many reasons, but the result is no more than two: one is to marry this man, the other is not to marry this man. This is largely a woman's choice. But unfortunately, objective circumstances are not subjective. What if the man is married?

At this time, if the woman still plans to marry him, it is bound to be a mistress, especially when the man can not refuse. Of course, marriage without love is immoral, but I'm afraid it is not moral to destroy someone else's marriage for love. Is the man in the marriage really out of love with his wife? Maybe, but more likely not, because if they didn't have love, they would have divorced long ago. In this matter of marriage, "riding a donkey to find a horse" is already a kind of betrayal. Of course, for the sake of love when the mistress of the woman is understandable, and after all, the responsibility of men here can not be ignored.

To, for money and power.

Money and power are in a sense inseparable, or very similar. A lot of people will stop at nothing for money and power. As a woman, it's easy to think of taking the mistress route. In our society, the pressure is high, the speed is fast and the temptation is many. In order to "succeed" early, people have the concept of eager for quick success and instant benefits. As a woman, it is easy to think that "marrying well is better than doing well". If you can marry into a rich family, isn't it a leap to the sky?

The idea is ancient. Especially when many rich and powerful people do not have the correct concept of marriage, then the mistress is easy to take advantage of the void. In marriage, men's money and status tend to increase over time, while women's looks continue to "depreciate". At this time, the young and youthful small three face the aging "original match" had the capital of competition. If the man acquiesces, the mistress will appear naturally. No matter whether the mistress can become a full-time job, at least she can instantly have the wealth and status that can be obtained without efforts.

Three, in order to satisfy their own desire.

Here the desire to satisfy refers to the pursuit of excitement, the pursuit of fashion, to prove charm, revenge venting and satisfaction of sexual desire and so on. This psychological reason is relatively complex, different mistress also have different reasons. For example, when the phenomenon of "mistress" has been widely reported and become a social phenomenon everywhere, some women think it is exciting and fashionable to be a mistress. They may be just following the trend or seeking a period of excitement, with money and the like as collateral products. And these girls, even the ticket girls, they just use it for fun.

Other women do it to prove they are more attractive than their original partner. As for the man, get the hand is enough, not to develop. Other women are special. They may have been victims of a mistress themselves, or at least have been abandoned by a man, and have chosen to become a mistress in order to take revenge and vent. "Others how to rob me I also how to rob others", this seems to be those who buy stolen goods bicycle, their own lost car to buy stolen cars. Less frequently, women become concubines for sexual gratification. They may get sexual gratification from this man and become addicted to the taste of the flesh.

Four, be cheated when small three, can't give up.

It's also very common that these women actually start out as victims. Some married men have moral problems and seek out other women whether they are satisfied with their married life or not. They either claim that they are unmarried or that their married life is very painful when they interact with women. Once the women are fooled, they use various means to cheat or delay. The most common excuses are children, illness, etc., followed by a divorce.

According to my observation, nine times out of ten such statements are lies. And those women who have been cheated may have paid a lot, such as emotional, financial, physical, and even made a great sacrifice. Even if they know they have been cheated, they are not willing to give up, because once they give up, all their past efforts will be wasted, and if they succeed in "getting a job", those efforts will be a little return. Thus, they also become the victims of the injury of the "original" mistress.