gender roles
A look at the evolution of gender roles, from Leave It to Beaver, paternity leave, female breadwinners and more.
#SingleMomChronicles: Stats
I am a black woman. I have never been married. I have a different father for each of my two children. They are both largely absent, financially and physically. Each of those things alone place me in a certain category of society. Put them all together and I am the epitome of a stereotypical "black mom". Stereotypes are not race or gender specific unfortunately. I am so very tired of the single mom narrative. Y'all know what I'm talking about. Popular opinion suggests that single moms are lazy and just leach off the government. All the blame is always placed on us.Perhaps, had we chosen better men, we wouldn't be single moms. If we can't make ends meet, we need to work more hours or get a higher paying job. Heck, some people have the nerve to say work TWO jobs, instead of depending on the government. I have even heard folks have the audacity to tell a mom that if she couldn't afford children, she shouldn't have had them. Are you freaking kidding me? I cannot speak for anyone but myself, but life happens. It is quite as simple as that. One day I have a good job and life is good, then all of a sudden the whole world is thrust into a pandemic and my mother is in the hospital fighting for her life. She gets better (thank goodness) only for my children to get Covid. Naturally, as their sole caregiver, I got sick too after a while. I lost my job.
By Latoya Giles 3 years ago in Viva
#SingleMomChronicles: Mom Guilt
I have had "mom guilt" many times over the course of my parenting alone. I just never knew it had an actual name. So what exactly is "mom guilt"? Well, the online dictionary defines it as: "the name given to the feelings of guilt women experience in relation to their children. Mom guilt comes from an unrealistic ideal of a perfect mom.". That is a great way to describe it.
By Latoya Giles 3 years ago in Viva
#SingleMomChronicles: Me Time
Hey mamas! On this episode of #SingleMomChronicles, we are gonna talk about: ME TIME. It is difficult as a parent to get time alone. As a single parent? Alone time is pretty much non-existent. I found myself becoming extremely overwhelmed all of a sudden. As the only adult in the house, everything lands on my shoulders. Whenever my children need anything, they come to me, of course. I have to cook, clean, help with homework, give advice and pep talks, be a listening ear, ect. I have a 17 year old daughter. She has generalized and social anxiety and depression. She has abandonment issues from her father leaving her as a child. She has mixed emotions about him raising his other kids but not being there during her childhood. She talks to me about all of those things. I have to sift through her mental and emotional stuff while attempting to sort through my own. I still gotta work somewhere to make money to live day to day. That is a heck of a lot for one person. I got to the point where I was sitting on the toilet in the bathroom with the door locked at midnight crying my eyes out. I mean ugly crying with the snot and the stuttering sobs. I would cry whenever I was in my car alone as well. That is no way to live. Something had to change, and change soon.
By Latoya Giles 3 years ago in Viva
The Dangerous Agenda Behind Gender Fluidity: A Critical Analysis
Gender fluidity is a term used to describe individuals who do not identify exclusively with one gender. The concept of gender fluidity has gained increasing attention in recent years as part of the broader discussion around LGBT issues. However, there is a darker side to the gender fluidity movement that is often overlooked. In this article, we will explore the dangerous agenda behind gender fluidity and its negative impact on society.
By Yosr Studio3 years ago in Viva
The Benefits of CBD for Menstrual Cramps: A Natural Solution for Women's Health
Introduction: Menstrual cramps, also known as dysmenorrhea, affect millions of women worldwide. These painful cramps can be debilitating and often require women to take over-the-counter painkillers or prescription medications to alleviate the discomfort. However, these medications often come with unwanted side effects and can be harmful to the body in the long run. In recent years, there has been an increasing interest in the use of cannabidiol (CBD) as a natural alternative to traditional medications. This article aims to explore the benefits of CBD in managing menstrual cramps and other menstrual symptoms.
By junaid mughal3 years ago in Viva
Disney and its Villainess
A couple of months ago, I watched “The Emperor’s New Groove”, a film that I used to love when I was a child. It struck me how I could catch new aspects, never seen before, cleverly hidden by Disney, in Yzma’s character. Therefore, I decided to write down some thoughts about this villainess.
By Francesca Paoletti3 years ago in Viva
Celebrating Women: Recognizing Their Contributions and Overcoming Challenges
Introduction Women have played a vital role in shaping society, culture, and history. Despite numerous obstacles, women have contributed to the progress and development of humanity in many ways. In this article, we will explore the remarkable achievements of women, highlight their ongoing struggles, and discuss the ways we can support women's empowerment and gender equality.
By Muhammad Atif3 years ago in Viva
How to handle a partner's emotional baggage
Emotional baggage refers to unresolved emotional issues that a person carries with them from their past experiences. These unresolved emotions can negatively impact an individual's current relationships, including romantic relationships. When you enter into a romantic relationship, you may find that your partner carries emotional baggage. In this article, we will explore how to handle a partner's emotional baggage and provide tips for supporting your partner and maintaining a healthy relationship.
By Rajveer Digital Marketer3 years ago in Viva
