The Day the Roses Taught Me to Slow Down

I didn’t understand the Rose Parade as a child. To me, it was just pretty flowers on strange machines, marching bands in matching uniforms, and my grandfather’s insistence that we watch it every single January 1st, no matter what.

“Why do we have to watch this?” I’d grumble, half-asleep on the couch, wishing I could play video games instead.

He’d hand me a mug of hot chocolate, wrap a quilt around my shoulders, and say, “Because today, the world moves slowly on purpose.”

Back then, I didn’t get it. The world was supposed to be fast—faster cars, faster games, faster everything. But the parade? It crept. Floats inched forward like they had all the time in the world. Bands played with precision, not speed. And the roses—thousands of them, blooming in winter—glistened like they knew they wouldn’t last.

My grandfather never missed it. Not when it snowed in Chicago. Not when we were traveling. Not even the year after my grandmother died, when he barely spoke for weeks. But on January 1st, he’d be there, sitting in his armchair, eyes fixed on the screen, a quiet smile on his face.

“It’s not about the flowers,” he told me once. “It’s about the hands that put them there. Students, neighbors, volunteers—they spend months building something beautiful they’ll never keep. And then they let it go.”

That idea haunted me. In a world that taught me to win, to keep, to hold on, here was a tradition built on temporary beauty and shared effort. No one profited. No one got famous. They just showed up, built something lovely, and watched it pass by—knowing it would be gone by sunset.

Years later, after he was gone, I found myself turning on the parade out of habit. I wasn’t sure why. Maybe to feel close to him. Maybe to remember that some things are worth doing just because they’re good—not because they’re useful.

I sat alone on the couch, just like he used to, and watched petals drift off a float as it turned a corner. And for the first time, I understood: this wasn’t entertainment. It was a meditation.

In a world that never stops scrolling, the Rose Parade dares to move slowly. It doesn’t sell anything. It doesn’t shout. It just is—a quiet act of collective creation, rooted in community, patience, and grace.

Now, I watch with my own daughter. She’s eight, and she already asks, “Why do we watch this, Dad?”

I hand her a mug of cocoa, tuck the blanket around her, and say the same words he said to me:

“Because today, the world moves slowly on purpose.”

And in that moment, I feel him with us—across time, across loss, across the quiet miracle of a tradition that asks nothing of you but your attention.

I’ve learned that the new year doesn’t need fireworks or resolutions to be meaningful. Sometimes, it just needs 5.5 miles of handmade floats, a band playing “Auld Lang Syne,” and the courage to sit still long enough to see beauty before it fades.

That’s the real gift of January 1st—not the game that follows, not the spectacle, but the invitation to choose slowness in a speeding world.

So every year, I say yes. I turn off my phone. I pull up the blanket. And I watch the roses go by—knowing they won’t last, and loving them all the more for it.

Because my grandfather was right:

Today matters. Not because it’s perfect. But because it’s here—and we showed up for it, together.

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Written by Kamran Ahmad from personal reflection and lived experience.