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One of the Biggest Mistakes You're Making With Your Money

Avoid this by all means

By Destiny S. HarrisPublished 19 days ago 3 min read
One of the Biggest Mistakes You're Making With Your Money
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What is the big mistake? I'll tell you.

Living in the moment (financially).

And it's one of the worst mistakes to make because it never leads to wealth unless you already have it.

We have an epidemic of advertising that promotes living in the moment. 

"What are you waiting for? Your time might never come. Opportunities don't last. Don't wait until you're old to live your best life. Have fun. Take adventures. Explore."

And use a credit card to do all of these things.

Am I saying we shouldn't live in the moment and invest in adventures? No. But we shouldn't compromise our financial health for living in the moment. It's not worth it.

Always Strategize For The Long-Term

Enjoy the short term, but plan for the long term. Don't live to the point where you forget you have another 30–80 years of life. Now is the time to eliminate debts, create passive income streams, build a massive financial portfolio, and enjoy life without going broke (aka into debt).

Most people enjoy life to their financial detriment. Every time they eat out, go out for drinks, vacation, shop, buy a new car, or go shopping, they sacrifice their financial health for a good time or to look like they are having a good time.

Which investors do you think win most? The long-term investors; the ones who plant the seeds and leave them alone because they understand the markets will go up and down, but if you give them enough time, they will consistently go up over time. 

Discipline Is King

Saving, investing, living below one's means, and not getting caught up in consumerism in a highly consumption-oriented world requires MASSIVE self-discipline, which most people lack. Long-term investors don't lack these habits.

Prioritizing your long-term goals and needs will keep you on the right financial path, but it won't be easy.

You will get distracted and start telling yourself things such as, "I deserve this" or "I only live once."

All these truths are facts, but what's the point of giving in to them to your financial detriment?

Living broke and experiencing life don't have to go hand-in-hand. There is a way to experience life without being broke.

How To Balance BOTH

Living in the moment and living financially sound is possible.

First, one must understand that meaning and fulfillment are not found in materialistic items but in experiences.

Meaning is often found in relationships, the people we build new relationships with, and those we help and inspire along our life journeys.

How does one balance both? 

"Saving, investing, living below one's means, and not getting caught up in consumerism in a highly consumption-oriented world."

Once you master this, not only will your future be promising, but you'll also be able to live comfortably in the moment because you have the means to do so without hurting your financial future.

Most people don’t actually want financial freedom—they want permission.

Permission to spend now and not feel anxious later.

Permission to enjoy life without consequences.

But money doesn’t work that way.

Every financial decision is a tradeoff between present comfort and future optionality.

Living in the moment only works when your future is funded.

When your foundation is solid, spontaneity becomes a choice instead of a liability. Travel doesn’t come with stress. Experiences don’t come with regret. You’re not mentally tallying the cost while pretending to relax.

That’s the difference between intentional living and reckless spending.

Real wealth buys peace. It buys time. It buys the ability to say yes without panic and no without fear. And that kind of freedom is built slowly, quietly, and often uncomfortably. It’s built in the moments where you choose restraint while everyone else chooses indulgence.

There’s nothing noble about financial struggle. There’s nothing romantic about being broke with memories. You don’t win points for suffering later because you refused to plan earlier.

Live fully—but live intelligently. Invest first. Build the base. Let discipline create the space where joy doesn’t cost you your future.

That’s how you enjoy the moment and the decades that follow.

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Start Investing.

This article is for informational purposes only. It should not be considered Financial or Legal Advice. Not all information will be accurate. Consult a financial professional before making any significant financial decisions."

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About the Creator

Destiny S. Harris

Writing since 11. Investing and Lifting since 14.

destinyh.com

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