Who’s To Blame ?

Have you ever wondered who is to blame for people being the way they are?

I mean of course besides the obvious ( themselves). But really who makes these people act as they do? Or as I like to say “ WHO MADE YOU THIS WAY ! ?”. Or is it just me? These days I've found myself being very analytical, so every time someone does something I don't like I immediately start thinking where they get this from? All these unanswered questions that we in fact have the answers to.

Now let's think back . . . During your life how many times up until now did you hear someone say “ It starts in the home”? If you're like me you've most likely been hearing this since you started school if not before that. Now I don't know about you but I’ve been noticing it really does in fact start in the HOME. Analyze it this way, anything YOU do or say and even feel you’ve seen it somewhere. This could be sometimes things we call our bad habits or our “reasons why”. The difference being that one makes us TOXIC and the other gives us discipline.

** For example: people who have alcoholics in their family, some would use this as the reason they drink a lot or behave in a certain manner. While others use this same reason for the reason they don't drink or drink to a minimum.**

Everything starts in the home seems to be a very accurate statement because no matter who raises you everything you've learned has been because you saw it there first. Now I want you to think about this, everyone knows at least one person (if not themselves) That don't really F*** with their parents or whoever raised them, they have some type of resentment towards them RIGHT ? NOW you don't have to agree with me people that know KNOW ! and some of us are not at the stage of acceptance and reflection. However those that are probably already know where I'm going with this so . . . HOW COULD YOU BE MAD AT SOMEONE FOR DOING WHAT SOMEONE TAUGHT THEM TO DO?

Now I'm sure right about now you all are choosing whether or not you agree with me, BUT I would really love for you to hear me out on this one.

THINK ! We are not the same, no two people are exactly the same, not even identical twins. We can not be mad at people for not being able to make better right and wrong choices because ultimately they are only acting this way because SOMEONE TAUGHT THEM TOO. In fact if they weren't figuring it out on their own or here reading this they were probably even unaware that this is simply a result of the “ Domino Effect” or as said in school “ A Chain Reaction”.

I hope you don't feel silly but in fact have a wake up call about these things we cannot control. Really we cannot control what people are showing/teaching us when we're young, we don't even realize we are being taught things until we start school and even then a while to actually be able to process what's happening. Then the percentage of people who may have always been aware you probably nodded your head in agreeance or maybe I put a smile on your face because you now feel less weird or alone like no one is thinking or processing things like you. I'm definitely with you on that. . .

Regardless of which of those categories you fall under I've been you all at one time or another and here we are a JUDGE FREE ZONE !

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