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What to do to respect elderly parents and keep them happy?

What to do to respect elderly parents and keep them happy?

By KiNGuyenHighPublished about a year ago 3 min read

Everyone hopes that their parents will be healthy, peaceful and happy in the years to come, and can live carefreely like children. Parents are the ones who gave birth to us, we are also searching and wondering how to show filial piety to our parents.

Greetings regularly, as a daily exercise do not forget

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If I live far away from my parents' house, I cannot visit and stay at my parents' house every day. Then, call your parents every day, regardless of what's being said on the phone, and there's no need to set a time limit for talking on the phone.

For elderly parents, they rarely have time to go out and interact with people, the greetings from their children and juniors are the happiest and heartwarming thing.

When possible, always greet your parents and don't forget it as your daily "homework".

Go home more and talk to your parents more

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Even though I'm over 50 years old, there are still miscellaneous things at home. But parents ask every week, will you come home this Saturday and Sunday?

Even though my parents didn't say anything, when I thought about it, I blamed myself and was afraid to talk to the people who raised me since I was young.

No matter how busy you are, if you can find time, try to come home often and talk to your parents more about everyday things...

Let them be more active and don't object to what they are actually doing

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Some of you are very opposed to your husband's parents doing this or that. Sometimes the old people who grow vegetables in the fields complain: Don't go to the fields when you're old. Some elderly people like to pick up scrap paper, plastic bottles... but some children criticize the elderly, saying they have no shame...

In fact, as long as the elderly can exercise, they can do whatever they want. Children should not indiscriminately oppose the elderly.

People and machines should not be run suddenly or for long periods of time. Over time, the machines will rust. And people also become stupid and degenerate if they do nothing.

For the elderly, what they want to do or are doing and what they can do, don't rigidly oppose them. Because for the elderly, exercise and reasonable living are also very good for their bodies.

For some small things, you can ask your parents for help

take care of your parents, be filial to your parents, how to show filial piety to your parents

Even though the elderly are old, they still do not want to be seen by others and their children as just people who need to be cared for, useless or worthless.

If the elderly are begged by their children or others to do something small, they will be very happy, thinking they are still useful people, and will be in an excited and happy mood.

Children are always concerned and take care of their parents, and sometimes we can also intentionally ask our parents for help.

You can deliberately not do some small things yourself, let your parents do it, so that they feel that even though they are old, they can still do something for their children and grandchildren, they are still useful, and they are quite proud.

Don't bring trouble to the elderly

take care of your parents, be filial to your parents, how to show filial piety to your parents

We often say, let the elderly enjoy a happy old age.

Our parents have worked hard all their lives, and can also be "thrown down" by life all their lives. This is the time for parents to enjoy happiness.

No matter how big or small, how much or how little, whether it's personal, family, social interactions, neighbors, relatives, elderly people in their 70s and 80s will feel worried, depressed, anxious and afraid. more scared than young people. These sadnesses further reduce the immunity, metabolism and disease resistance of the elderly, even causing the elderly to lose sleep all night, have heart attacks, increase blood pressure, mentally collapse, and seriously damage their health. physical and mental health.

Not telling your parents about your troubles is also true filial piety to your parents.

Talk to the elderly more about fun and interesting things, and do not talk to the elderly about things you are unhappy about, unhappy, uncomfortable, etc. without thinking, so as not to make them worry. quiet and nervous.

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KiNGuyenHigh

Events or moments, whether happy or sad, leave an imprint on your mind. Let the truth speak and set yourself free. Of course all good things will come.

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