What is the difference between loving oneself and being selfish?

1. loving oneself is taking responsibility for oneself, while selfishness is forcing others to take responsibility for oneself.

To love oneself is to recognize one's actual ability, to go ahead and dare to take the bottom for what one wants and what one chooses, to know oneself and then to know the other, to recognize the actual ability of others, and not to force them to fulfill one's dream for one's own because of the unattainable vision, and to create resentment and hatred.

On this basis, we are at home, putting ourselves before others, and making it clear that everything we do is for ourselves, from ourselves, and not to increase the bargaining power to bind others.

On the contrary, selfishness is to feel that what you do is for the sake of others to do the commission, and later will inevitably because the other party is not good enough and the victim mentality.

2. love yourself is to cultivate the realm of the heart, selfishness is a delusion tailored.

Love yourself is to encounter unsatisfactory people and things, can think objectively on the sidelines, and see what you get from it, for example, from the failure of things to get valuable experience in the future, so that all the experiences, can nourish themselves.

Selfishness is the slightest bit unsatisfactory place, will blame God, want to outside all the people and things around their spread, in the negative cycle of seeking but can not let go.

The so-called belief that the future can be expected, not believe that the future of the unpredictable things will be smooth, but to cultivate their ability and toughness of mind, even in the wind and water can still ride the waves as strong as the waves.

3. love yourself is not ashamed of your heart, selfishness is to have a guilty conscience.

This heart is at peace with my home.

Love yourself is to ensure that everything you do is without shame, are open and honest, and will not leave a tail of worry, not in the midnight dream when the worry is not safe.

On the contrary, selfishness is to ignore the conscience, for short-term interests or selfishness to find excuses for not being in line with the three views of various actions, to cover up, so that this selfishness and self-interest, although they win the benefits of the surface, everything is a conservation of energy, the bright gain is dark loss, and inevitably in the future because of the guilt and self-condemnation.

4. love oneself is far-sighted, selfishness is the frog at the bottom of the well.

Love yourself is "the wind is long enough to see the amount", have a big picture, the general to catch up, not chasing rabbits, to make their future win more extensive, the foundation is more solid, the bottom of the card is more adequate, love feathers, have respect, have a responsibility, have a sense of enterprise, to get for people trust the invisible backing.

Selfishness is only looking at the immediate gains and losses, regardless of the interests of others, eating dry, cut off their retreat.

5. love yourself is to compare your heart with your mind, selfishness is to destroy the good of others.

To love oneself is to love what one loves and cherish what one cherishes, so one can think differently, love what one loves and cherish what one cherishes, and not be complacent by destroying what others love for one's selfishness or jealousy.

Selfishness is the heart of hatred, climbing obsession, can not see others have their treasures, by any means to suppress the attack, to achieve a momentary stolen joy.

6. love themselves is to shine on each other, and selfishness is to sink together.

Love yourself, is the peace of mind and goodness of heart, understand.

"Hello, I'm good, everyone is good, everyone is really good."

"Hello, I am with you, it means I am also good."

"Although I am temporarily at a low point because I see the light and heat in others and self-motivation to rise again."

Selfishness is the belief that.

"I am not good, so you cannot be good either."

"I'm not good, so I'm going to render you with my negative values so that I can have company."

In short, selfish people have difficulty loving themselves; loving yourself is for your good, and being selfish is for your good or both.

How should one love oneself?

Take responsibility for yourself and become yourself

If you have a vision, set a good stop-loss bottom line based on the clear that this is for their own sake, pick up the bag and do it first, do not leave regrets for yourself, and do not add to the burden of others.

Physical health, as a prerequisite

If you are physically weak, do anything, when you can eat well and sleep well as a prerequisite, if the body is healthy, should also be in the maintenance of a healthy foundation of ten thousand feet high building flat ground.

But all the actions, no shame in the heart

What is said and done, over their hearts and then talk about the other, against their hearts it difficult to love themselves.

Respect yourself, get respect from others

People can not have pride, but not without pride, to respect their principles, bottom line, personality, the face is their own to themselves, respect themselves, people always respect.

Above, I would like to encourage.

I hope that all of you can be wise and open, free to rejoice!