To change our lives, the first step is to change our mindset

A young man met a beautiful woman in a tourist spot and lived with her for a long time. Finally, the girl turned to him and asked, "Why are you always following me?"

I'm sorry, I'm sorry.

He confessed the truth to her. "Because you are the most beautiful, moody woman I have ever met. Please promise to be my girlfriend." .

The girl replied, "Now, if you look behind you, you can see my sister. She is prettier than me."

The man looked back as soon as he heard it, but all he saw were ordinary women.

'he asked the girl.

I lied! If you really like me, why would you come back? The girl replied and turned away.

Story: People often don't appreciate what they have. This is not only a hurt and loss to others, but also a hurt and loss to oneself. That's life, just like life. A goal without goals will only cause you to lose all your previous achievements and do nothing!

2. An old lion is sick. He groaned loudly while hiding in the cave. The animals nearby heard the lion groan and went into the cave to visit.

When the fox heard the news, he came, too. When he reached the cave, the old lion's groans grew louder and louder. Poor thing. When the fox wanted to go in, he suddenly put out his ears, tucked his front feet into the hole, and walked back and forth into the hole.

Seeing that the fox had not entered the cave for a long time, the lion in the cave could not help but say to the fox, "Fox, since you are here, why don't you come in?" I heard you.

I answered the fox. "I can only see animal footprints, but I can't see them. How can I get in?"

The Story: Everything is "easier to advance than to retreat", so we must develop the ability to observe the environment, become more sensitive to society, make decisions before action, so that we can keep ourselves in an invincible position. If you act recklessly, you may be in a disadvantageous and dangerous situation.

3. A farmer fed the chickens the night before they were killed. The next day, I saw the chicken lying on the floor with a suicide note about taking rat poison. I don't feel like eating. I get angry easily.

When your opponent knows your decision, he can make the most advantageous decision. Nash equilibrium theory

Therefore, confidentiality and security of information are very important.

"Said the fish," I keep my eyes wide open, for I will always keep you in my eyes.

Water said: I have been running, just to hug you forever!

The sign on the pot said, "Ready to cook soon." This is still the end of poverty!!

The constraints change, and the initial benefit suddenly becomes a cost. If you put your life in a pot, the natural cost will be higher.

Einstein was very playful when he was a child. His mother often worried about this, and told him again and again what he should do, but it was like nothing to him. One morning in the autumn of his 16th year, his father stopped Einstein on his way to the river to go fishing and told him a story that would change Einstein's life. The story goes like this:

"Yesterday," said Einstein's father, "my neighbor Uncle Jack and I swept a chimney in the south factory. The chimney can only be reached by stepping on the steel ladder inside. Your Uncle Jack is in the front. I'm in the back. We held on to the handrail, step by step, finally climbed up. When we came down, your Uncle Jack still walked in front, and I still followed him. Later, when I came out of the chimney, I noticed a strange thing: your Uncle Jack's back and face were all black with soot from the chimney, but I didn't have any soot on my body." Einstein's father continued to smile and said, "I saw your Uncle Jack and thought I must be like him, with a dirty face like a clown, so I went to the nearby river to wash and wash. Uncle Jack, on the other hand, saw me coming out of the chimney clean, so he thought he was as clean as me, so he just washed his hands and went out into the street. People in the street laughed so hard that they thought you, Uncle Jack, were crazy."

When Einstein heard this, he couldn't help laughing with his father. Father finished laughing, solemnly said to him, "In fact, no one else can be your mirror, only oneself is their own mirror. By holding others up as mirrors, an idiot may reflect himself as a genius."

When Einstein heard this, he looked ashamed.

Einstein left that group of naughty children. He always uses himself as a mirror to examine and reflect himself, and finally reflects the brilliance of life.

Blindly compare yourself to others, feel satisfied that you are smarter than those around you, or feel depressed that you are not as smart as others. How stupid this is! Everyone has his own life goals and lifestyle, they are their own in this world the most reliable guide to life.