The same life, a different attitude

Seeing other people's days getting better and better, on the contrary, they are not good or bad.

Always can not help but jealousy, with malice to speculate on the success of others, but have not thought about why they are worse than others.

The starting point is the same, why is there such a big difference when you grow up?

In the final analysis, the problem lies in the attitude of life, some people are positive to face, some negative to treat.

Wilde said, "We are all in the gutter, but there are still people who look up to the stars."

Life is hard, and life is more tiring, but there are still people positive to live.

Likewise, some people choose to give up early and live a life that is not easy to see at the end of the day.

The same life, a different attitude, naturally will live a different life.

You think "everything is life", but is their own "sin".

1、Complain too much, too little self-reflection

When I first started working, I met a very picky boss, every day there are endless revisions of the manuscript, after changing a version, there is the next version, and the final draft does not know how many versions have been changed.

At that time, I was physically and mentally exhausted, and my only "hobby" was to complain, saying the same thing to different people, until the people around me had calluses on their ears, and I continued to say it, not caring whether others wanted to hear it or not.

Time has passed, friends have chosen to avoid me, and even some people have temporarily blacked me out.

Until someone scolded me, said: "If you feel that you can not do, simply resign and forget it, do not complain about this and that every day, make others unhappy, they are also unhappy, waste time tormenting each other, have this time is better to do something else ...... "

I just came to my senses, understand that their complaints are meaningless, and will only increase their grievances, for the solution to the problem does not help at all, but also may do the work worse and worse, and finally not wait for their boss fired, the boss fired.

Think about it another way, you always follow the boss's intention to change, but never thought about why to change, did not find a reason to blindly change, and finally will only change to change did not find the leg of the question where, rather than before writing a draft to ask clearly what the boss wants, to determine the boss's needs before writing a draft, compared to write out the draft will be easier to pass.

When you encounter problems, don't always think about complaining, but learn to analyze the problem and understand where you are wrong.

Knowing that you can correct your mistakes will allow you to keep getting better.

Learn to introspect yourself to understand your shortcomings, through learning and practice to improve the shortcomings, make yourself better.

Most people make their lives worse and worse, they lose in complaining too much, introspection is too little, try to switch the suffixes of the two, you will find their future infinite possibilities, as long as enough effort, everything is possible.

2, things have not been done, the fear of failure

I have a friend, when encountering problems, it is natural to choose to escape, afraid to run slower will be entangled in the problem.

But escape once, can not escape the next time, there is always a time to face.

This is not, one day to go to work, as usual, she was entrusted by the leadership to get a video number, but she refused, the leadership just want her to get it, the name said to give her the opportunity.

She had no choice but to try to get, but no contact, the heart is very afraid, the more afraid the more likely to make mistakes, the result of getting a few days did not get a beginning, but to make themselves too much pressure to get sick.

I said, you can't do this, and then afraid of new things, but things can't be avoided in front of you, then you have to be brave to face them, otherwise, your job will not keep, and then changing a job will inevitably encounter new problems.

I don't know if I figured it out, or money power is too powerful, from that day onwards, she was energized to make an effort to get the video number, the beginning is not very good, but willing to learn, willing to try, but slowly feel the way out, the account is better and better.

Then there are difficult problems that have a solution but do not yet try to give up, and that will always be a failure.

You are far better than you think, just you habitually give up, forgetting that you have the possibility of success.

The Ten Deadly Sins" mentioned that "some things are not persistent only when you see hope, but persistent only when you see hope".

As long as enough effort, and enough persistence, an iron pestle can be ground into a needle, not to mention the difficulties, persistence will win.

3、Living, there is hope

Nothing in life is impossible, no road can also rely on a footprint to walk out the road.

As long as you live, you have hope, as long as you work hard, you will reap the rewards, as long as you are gold, you will shine.

Nothing in this world is impossible, as long as you dare to do it, it is possible to come true.

Unfortunately, most people are less persistent in perseverance, always insist not to the end, do not see the result, as in the case of weight loss, can not hold on for long to think about giving up, week after week, "insist - give up", and finally will only let themselves repeat weight loss failure. Seemingly in the effort, but only in the pretense.

If you want to change yourself, then start to change your attitude toward life, and live a different wonderful.