The psychology of narcissism

The ancient Greeks and Romans had a myth about a person who was a bit too fixated on his own image long before the first selfie.

Narcissus, according to one version, was a charming man who traveled the world looking for love.

After turning down a nymph named Echo, he fell in love with his own reflection after seeing it in a river.

Narcissus drowned because he was unable to separate himself.

The Narcissus is the name of the flower that marked the location of his death.

The fundamental concept of narcissism and excessive, occasionally harmful self-involvement is encapsulated in the myth.

However, this personality type isn't limited to those found in advice columns.

In reality, it is a collection of characteristics that psychologists categorize and research.

Narcissism is defined by psychologists as having an exaggerated, grandiose view of oneself.

To differing degrees, narcissists believe they are more significant, smarter, and attractive than others and should be given preferential treatment.Grandiose and vulnerable narcissism are the two types of narcissism that psychologists identify as personality traits.

We'll go back to narcissistic personality disorder soon, which is a more severe form of the disorder.

The most prevalent type of narcissism is grandiose, which is typified by attention-seeking, dominance, and extroversion.

Grandiose narcissists, who may be politicians, celebrities, or cultural leaders, strive for fame and fortune.

Naturally, not all individuals who strive for these positions of authority are narcissistic.

Imagine using your spouse and kids as a source of attention or admiration rather than providing for them.

Or consider the scenario where you told everyone who attempted to assist you that they were mistaken, rather than asking for helpful criticism regarding your performance.

What, then, leads to narcissism?

Although the specific genes involved are unknown, twin studies indicate a significant genetic component.

However, the environment is also important.

Grandiose narcissism can be fostered by parents who place their children on a pedestal.

Vulnerable narcissism can also be exacerbated by cold, domineering parents.

Can narcissists, then, overcome those shortcomings?

Indeed!

Anything that encourages sincere introspection about one's own actions and concern for others, such as psychotherapy or acting with empathy, can be beneficial.

The problem is that individuals with narcissistic personality disorder may find it difficult to continue their efforts at self-improvement.

From an unflattering perspective, self-reflection is difficult for narcissists.

Additionally, cultures that value individuality and self-promotion appear to have higher levels of narcissism.

For instance, narcissism has become more prevalent as a personality trait in the US since the 1970s, when the self-esteem movement and an increase in materialism replaced the 1960s' emphasis on community.

Social media has increased opportunities for self-promotion in recent years, but it's important to remember that there isn't any concrete proof that social media leads to narcissism.

Instead, it gives narcissists a way to pursue attention and social status.

Narcissistic partners may be dishonest or unfaithful, and narcissistic leaders may make dangerous or immoral choices.

They may become hostile and resentful if their positive self-perception is questioned.

It's similar to a disease in which those who have it feel fairly well, but those around them suffer.

When this behavior reaches an extreme level, it is categorized as narcissistic personality disorder, a psychological disorder.

One to two percent of people, mostly men, are impacted.

Also, it is an adult-only diagnosis.

Self-centeredness is common among young people, particularly children, but it may simply be a natural aspect of development.

A number of characteristics linked to narcissistic personality disorder are described in the fifth edition of the American Psychiatric Association's Diagnostic and Statistical Manual.

These include having a conceited self-image, having trouble empathizing, feeling entitled, and needing attention or acclaim.

These characteristics take over people's lives and lead to serious issues, which is what distinguishes them as true personality disorders.