The Covert Narcissist’s Love Bombing and the Endless Cycle of Abuse

The covert, who suffers from Narcissistic Personality Disorder and is a covert, does not realize that they will abandon you until they have found someone whom they like more than you to be with for an extended period of time. They are able to get found with mistresses, blame it on you, and tirelessly work on you until they are forgiven once again. The only thing that changes the next time it occurs is that they didn’t make any attempt to hide it.

Due to the fact that it is continually getting drenched with your tears, the arctic ice that is now the foundation beneath your feet is slippery. It is a terrible kind of abuse. After coming to terms with the fact that you will never be even close to being content with the covert narc, you decide to quit up.

The act of love bombing.

They are aware of the steps that need to be taken in order to keep you, and they will take those steps. They are able to make you joyful, and in these trying times, they demonstrate that they are able to do so.

In order to initiate the love bombing technique, the covert narc will begin by doing an unexpected and pleasant act for you. In fact, they will communicate with you. When someone smiles at you and says something to you, you get the impression that they do not detest you. You are taken aback, and you find yourself wondering what you did that was so right all of a sudden. They have a positive disposition and discuss some of the things that are occurring in their place of employment. The abrupt change in the narc’s behavior provides you with a much-needed feeling of relief, and you feel complimented by it. Once again, the air could be breathed. You have had the impression that you were the source of the unpleasant odor that was caused by a spoiled dinner that he had forgotten about that he had placed on a plate many months or perhaps years ago.

The narc extends an invitation to you to have a weekend getaway to a hotel that is known for its romantic atmosphere, as well as its delicious cuisine and wine. He bestows upon you a sweet present. In order to make you feel like a special person, a lovely new outfit and a stunning scent. Although it is not the case that you are unable to afford to purchase it on your own, that is not the point. You are now experiencing a sense that is very similar to euphoria as a result of his comeback on the scene.

Whoa! You want to feel this way for the rest of your life because the chemical processes that are taking place in your brain give you an addictive feeling. Obviously, it is not going to happen, but on the other hand, you are feeling well enough to let go of any thoughts of leaving him. As soon as your departure strategy is removed from your agenda, the narc is able to detect it. Not only has the black cloak been put back on, but the odor of sulfur is also there in his presence. The face that is tanned and has eyes that are friendly and do not harbor any hatred against you is exchanged for a star that is black and frigid and an atmosphere that is poisonous. You are once again experiencing feelings of isolation, in addition to the strain of having to cope with the guy who is of a heavy weight. His feelings of regret stem from the fact that he must continue to share his life with the lady he had once loved and married. It is impossible for the covert to like you and yet cheat on you and abuse you in such a cruel manner even when he enjoys the sensation of being the victim. As a result of the fact that he requires it to be your fault, you are the issue.

Each and every day, each and every week, each and every month, and each and every year, you are the issue.

At some point in the future, something will take place that will interrupt this cycle of cruelty. The narc will leave the spot after the victim demonstrates disinterest or when they are defeated. As soon as the victim has regained their vigor, they can attempt to re-enter the room in order to feed on it.

Your own vulnerability is the narcissist’s greatest power.