personality disorder
Personality disorders are as complex as they are misunderstood; delve into this diagnosis and learn the typical cognitions, behaviors, and inner experience of those inflicted.
When There’s No Light at the End of the Tunnel
Growing up, we’re taught to believe that every difficult journey will eventually lead to a happy ending. That no matter how long and dark the tunnel may seem, there will always be a light shining at the end, waiting to guide us out. And maybe that’s true for some people. But for those of us who have endured the pain of a toxic, narcissistic mother, the reality is much different.
By Sunshine Firecrackerabout a year ago in Psyche
Late
The soup got cold. Guess who has to heat it up again? Of course I get to do all the work as usual. And of course no one respects my effort. Least of all that ungrateful daughter, late for dinner although the school ended four hours ago. I keep her timetable on my bedside table so I know when she’s supposed to be home. She won’t fool me. It’s only a ten minutes’ walk and she knows the dinner is ready at half four. But what does she care? Yesterday, she even had the cheek to tell me she didn’t want dinner. That she ate at school. So what? Does she think I make an effort to cook so that it can go to the bin? Two courses every day! So disrespectful of her.
By Katarzyna Popielabout a year ago in Psyche
Managing Worker Stress: Identifying Problems and Implementing Solutions
Across all sectors, employee stress is too often experienced as an everyday thing especially at this moment in time when work environments are so demanding. Burnout results from long work hours, heavy workloads, tight deadlines and pressure to always perform well. When left unaddressed, stress decreases productivity while affecting employee’s health, morale and general wellbeing negatively. This may lead to increased absenteeism rates in companies engagement levels and turnover rates that are higher than expected. However, with appropriate strategies stress at workplaces can be managed and its adverse impacts minimized. Common Sources of Workplace Stress
By Ahmet Kıvanç Demirkıranabout a year ago in Psyche
Covert Narcissists and Legal System Exploitation:
When it comes to narcissists, their need for control knows no bounds. Most people associate narcissistic behavior with personal relationships—romantic partners, friends, or family members—but covert narcissists often take their manipulation to a whole new level: the legal system. And if there’s one thing a covert narcissist loves more than playing the victim, it’s exploiting the rules in their favor.
By Sunshine Firecrackerabout a year ago in Psyche
The Traits of Narcissistic Parents
Narcissistic parents can have a profound effect on their children, shaping not only their childhoods but their entire lives. Narcissism, characterized by an excessive need for admiration, a lack of empathy, and a sense of entitlement, can manifest in many damaging behaviors when exhibited by a parent. These traits, while difficult to recognize from the inside, create environments that stifle the emotional growth of children, fostering long-term psychological effects.
By Sunshine Firecrackerabout a year ago in Psyche
Signs of Gaslighting:
Gaslighting is one of the most subtle and insidious forms of emotional manipulation. It’s a tactic used by individuals—often narcissists—to make their victim doubt their own reality, perceptions, and sanity. Over time, gaslighting can leave the victim feeling confused, powerless, and isolated, unsure of what is real and what isn’t. The term comes from the 1944 film Gaslight, in which a husband manipulates his wife into believing she’s losing her mind by subtly altering their environment and insisting she’s imagining the changes.
By Sunshine Firecrackerabout a year ago in Psyche
Smear Campaigning:
Smear campaigning is one of the most underhanded tactics narcissists use to tear down their victims. Unlike overt aggression, this method is subtle, calculated, and often goes unnoticed until the damage is done. Whether you're leaving a toxic relationship, setting boundaries, or simply standing up for yourself, a narcissist’s smear campaign is designed to paint you as the villain while they play the victim. This insidious form of character assassination can be devastating, leaving you isolated, socially alienated, and questioning your reality.
By Sunshine Firecrackerabout a year ago in Psyche
Covert Narcissists and False Claims:
In the world of covert narcissism, manipulation is an art form. While overt narcissists may aggressively seek attention and control in obvious ways, covert narcissists are far more subtle, wielding deceit and misdirection like a scalpel rather than a hammer. One of the most chilling tactics in their playbook is the use of **false claims** to manipulate the legal system, particularly in cases involving divorce, child custody, or even workplace disputes.
By Sunshine Firecrackerabout a year ago in Psyche
Covert Narcissism:
Covert Narcissism: The Silent Manipulation You Didn’t See Coming When we hear the word *narcissist*, most of us envision the textbook definition: someone loud, arrogant, and blatantly self-centered, dominating every conversation with a relentless need for attention. But that’s only one flavor of narcissism. There’s another, more insidious version that flies under the radar. Enter the *covert narcissist*: the wolf in sheep’s clothing. They don’t dominate rooms with their presence—they manipulate them quietly, leaving chaos in their wake while maintaining a mask of innocence. If you’ve ever felt inexplicably guilty or inadequate after interacting with someone who seems so *nice* on the surface, you might be dealing with a covert narcissist.
By Sunshine Firecrackerabout a year ago in Psyche
