People live a life, it is rare not to get angry
Live, who wants everything to be as it should be, but the reality is crueler than imagined, more or less there will be one or two annoying things exist, want not to get angry are very difficult.

Anger is not a solution to the problem, but will hurt themselves, the angrier, the more difficult it will be.
Instead of letting yourself get angry all the time, learn to control your temper and don't get angry and do the wrong thing because of annoying things.
1. Do not sulk because of other people's mistakes
There is no shortage of trivial things in life, if everything is angry, it is undoubtedly its fault.
Imagine today for the grocery shopping expensive angry, tomorrow for late to work angry, the day after tomorrow for the wrong car and angry ...... all day angry this gas that, afraid of gas can not be angry.
If anger becomes a habit, I'm afraid it will become an abomination, to what all look bad, see what all want to get angry, torture others at the same time, and hurt themselves.
Instead of letting yourself live more and more uncomfortable, it is better to live differently, no longer focusing on the "gains and losses" look, but putting the mind at ease, and no longer lose your temper.
It's not that you don't get angry, but it's not worth getting angry about.
There is no need to spend time getting angry, it is better to have this time to cultivate your body and be a better version of yourself.
Many times, the forgiveness of others' mistakes, and relief are their own.
Only by letting yourself walk away from the mistakes of others can you see the other side of life.
2. Don't do the wrong thing because of annoying things
All know that it is not good to be angry, but emotions out of control will lose their minds and become unlike themselves, just venting their emotions, regardless of how the results.
Though it was venting emotions, the anger toward others, not only will not help but also hurt themselves and the people around them.
At that time, the damage has been caused, and then to admit fault and what is the use, say more "sorry" can not change the reality.
So, no matter what is bothering you again, you have to learn to control your emotions.
Otherwise, when the emotions out of control become a habit, it is difficult to return to the self.
There is time to get angry, it is better to spend more time on learning.
After all, annoying things have existed, and more worries, and more anger, are not helpful, rather than think of ways to solve.
And want to worry about things no longer bother, the best way is to make yourself strong, have enough strength to deal with all the worries, will no longer be angry because of trivial things, and do silly things.
As long as there is enough strength, worries will no longer be worries but will become a stepping stone to success.
Do people, only to reduce anger, can live a more transparent, and see things?
3. Control your temper, to master your life
It is said that "temper is indulged out".
There was no temper, spoiled more people have become, become reckless, always throwing tantrums.
You may think that even if you take it out on others, it's okay, but you forget that others are not you and cannot tolerate you like your family.
The only way to indulge your temper is to make yourself hated and let the people around you leave you one by one, and then it will be too late to regret it.
The spoiled young lady in the TV show, with the protection of the elders of the family, can naturally do whatever they want, there is no shortage of flatterers around, but once this protection is lost, she will be faced with the reality of blow after blow, not only the ridicule of those who once made friends, and the retaliation of those who made enemies, with the harsh reality of teaching her how to control their temper.
Therefore, people should learn to control their emotions to control their lives.
Although emotions are held back when you want to vent, after venting and easy to regret it.
Many times, the moment of losing your temper is very cool, but afterward, there will be trouble that follows, and by then I'm afraid I'll regret what I did today.
Only learn not to get angry, can slowly dissolve the anger in your heart, no longer because of a moment of emotion on the head to do something stupid, but know how to keep your sanity to do what should be done.


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