In the second half of life, the greatest wisdom is to "let go"

Life is a process of picking up and letting go.

Some people are impetuous, and they are always uncertain in the face of choice and letting go, and their eagerness for success has become the last straw that crushes him.

And some people know how to choose and let go, and eventually become the winners in life.

People are calm and have more than years, and things are calm and aftertaste.

If we can't learn to let go on the way forward, the burden on our shoulders will increase until we can't breathe, and it will be difficult to make a new leap.

In the second half of your life, may you: think open, bearish, and let go

The glitz in the world is like a dream, and it is a blessing to look down on the floating clouds.

From toddlerhood, to starting a family and starting a business, to being independent, the process of growing a person from naive to stable and mature is actually the process of increasing the burden on his back.

Ever since we put our schoolbags on our backs, this burden has been increasing. The heavy responsibilities of young people's studies, the pressure of youth work, and even middle-aged people who are not confused in their forties have to bear the burden of the old and the small...

Every step has hardships and bitterness that cannot be said by others, and every journey has its moments of collapse. The world tells us that these burdens are the responsibility and the only way to be born as human beings, so we must bear them without complaint.

But the journey of life is very short, we should cherish the power of choice that we still have, and no one knows the truth of "easier to do".

Under the invisible burden of other people's evaluations, unintentional mistakes, strange eyes, and self-denial, we care more and more about how we look in the eyes of others, and our hearts are full of unspeakable anxiety. Social elimination.

Blindly living in the eyes of the outside world and caring too much about the judgments of others will only make us constantly lose ourselves, and finally we will trap ourselves in a cage and cannot escape.

Although we can refer to the opinions of others, we must not give up the bottom line and principles, follow the trend to set a “what should be done” framework for ourselves, and choose compromise and compliance for the sake of worldly vision.

The best choice is to let go of your burdens and obsessions and do your best to retain the purest and most valuable part of your life.

The real wealth of a person is the inner calm and open-mindedness.

In the second half of life, learn: calm, open-minded, contented

To be content with the vastness of the world, to be greedy for the narrowness of the universe.

Life is a process of pain and pleasure.

Whether you know how to let go properly is a direct reflection of a person's ability to bear.

Taking spicy food in life as an example, no one is born with a special ability to eat spicy food. Most people's acceptance of spicy food is acquired. A person who can hardly accept spicy taste has tasted "abnormal spicy food" several times. "After that, he could easily accept the normal level of spiciness, and of course he also suffered the pain caused by abnormal spiciness in the process.

The ancients said: "Desires are hard to fill." The reason why we have desires is because we are not satisfied with our current situation, and always want more to make life more perfect.

But unbridled desire is like a demagogic poison that twists us and leads us astray.

There is a saying in the early chicken soup for the soul: "Love can't be too full, or happiness will overflow".

In the same way, desires and pursuits cannot be too full, otherwise the results will be contrary to our expectations.

Because everything in the world changes with the change of karma, but we are small and we try to firmly grasp it and make it the same, but naturally no one can do it.

Since ancient times, people have maintained the yearning for all the good things such as money, status and power, which are surging in the depths of people's hearts like a surging river.

The more a person has, the more troubles, and most of our troubles come from caring about external things.

When we get rid of "greed and greed" and learn to let go, we can free up our hands to grasp what we really want, and avoid lifelong regrets due to small losses.

Those who are content, the years have settled, and keeping the purity and simplicity is the most precious day in life.

In the second half of life, know how to: relax, be at ease, move forward

Let go of one thought and feel at ease.

People usually like to put shackles on their own minds. All the troubles encountered in life are ultimately because they have not learned to let go. While adding pressure to the spirit, they also burden their body and mind with heavy burdens, so they move forward. getting heavier.

"Letting go" is a kind of liberation, and it is also a kind of sober wisdom. No matter what the current situation is, the glory and suffering of the past should be forgotten, and all the burdens that bind us should also be put down.

The superstar Chow Yun-fat summed up his life with the three words "top, stop, and upright", in which "stop" is to learn to enjoy the moment and cherish what you have now.

In an interview with the media, he also talked about his attitude towards life: "Life is often unsatisfactory, so why bother with those eight or nine? We can just live the remaining one or two."

The cruel real world makes us have to face the pain, but sometimes we need to let go of the so-called face and dignity, otherwise, if we blindly have the guts to dare to hit hard, we will only make ourselves smashed by the door frame.

Because once people have such obsessions as "should", "original" and "certain", the pain of confrontation and contradiction will follow. When we get into an argument with our partner, we feel annoyed and angry.

Only when we learn to let go and let go, can we embrace the sudden enlightenment after the epiphany and the bright sunshine after the clouds and fog dissipate.

The happiness of life starts from the moment.

The best life is actually, here and now, right now!