Faithfulness: What Narcissists Can’t Offer in Relationships

Faithlessness is the fundamental idea that unites all three.

Faithlessness is a perspective through which to see everything a narcissist does in relationships.

However, we must first comprehend what fidelity is in order to appreciate faithlessness.

Furthermore, the nature of faith is closely related to the character of fidelity.

What is faith, then?

Believing in the invisible is faith.

Many of the world’s and life’s greatest things are found only in the invisible world.

What makes someone good? Where is their goodness?

What qualifies this individual as trustworthy? Where can I assess their reliability?

Can they see that I have faith in them?

Is it evident that you are liked by someone?

Is it obvious to others that you like them?

Is the wind visible?

Perceiving the invisible is faith.

Many things are either invisible or impossible to view without specialized equipment. These include material things like wind and electrons, tiny things like viruses and DNA, and spiritual things like love, trust, hatred, and disdain. But they do exist.

One might infer their existence from the impact they have on the world. Electricity, which cannot exist without electrons, is the reason Quora exists. That’s the logic.

However, it is only an article of faith for me. I believe that there are electrons. Since I am unable to detect electrons, I am at a loss for options. Computers are either powered by electrons or some enigmatic magic. By taking a great leap of faith, I am able to “understand” current computers because of my fundamental knowledge of electrons and how semiconductors create logic circuits. This or enigmatic magic, which is also a kind of faith, is the choice.

Faith, therefore, is perceiving the invisible. believing in the existence of the unseen despite our inability to perceive it. However, we may infer their existence from their impact on the observed if we possess the proper faith, which leads to the proper paradigms. Leaves are moved by wind.

Love is a behavior. “Like” is an action. Hatred is a behavior. Contempt is a behavior. I can infer your character and spiritual condition from the way you behave.

Faith is that. I believe you will upvote me if you really love me. Furthermore, I believe that everything you say is not love if you do not upvote me. Does it sound contentious? Let’s attempt the opposite scenario.

I believe that everyone who trolls or disparages me is disdainful of me. They wouldn’t try to make me stumble if they really loved me. If you’re bold, it’s really easy.

Thus, faith is the ability to infer the unseen by looking at how it affects the apparent.

Thus, confidence in the invisible is necessary for loyalty. Faithfulness is not believing what is seen. In actuality, it often seems that the visible and invisible are at odds with one another. For instance, a narcissist would wax poetic about how much they love and admire you, how you are their soul mate, how you complete them, and how they have been waiting for you to arrive their whole lives, just to subtly disparage you five minutes later. The invisible is the subtle, perplexing degeneration, while the words are the visible. Which view do you decide to believe? What is the true reality? The words’ actuality? Or the fact that the degeneration is subtle?

I would prefer the sense of humiliation and disregard the epic phrases if I were true to the correct paradigm. But that’s simply the way my faith shows up.

But what if I’m unfaithful?

Believing just what is visible and dismissing everything else is the very essence of being unfaithful. Therefore, it isn’t genuine if people can’t see it.

And the issue is that.

Love, trust, honesty, and similar things are invisible.

Therefore, to the unfaithful, they are nonexistent.

The issue with narcissists is that. They are lone wolf materialists and solipsistic empiricists. Their logic is completely oblivious to love, trust, or similar concepts, and they only have faith in their own crude reasoning. They are thus destined to be disloyal.

They go into relationships with the implicit belief that there is no such thing as love, trust, honesty, or the like. thus they are invisible.

Here, an analogy might be helpful.

Ignaz Semmelweis made an effort to persuade early medical professionals that hand cleaning before doing surgery saved lives. However, since they lacked trust, the physicians refused to wash their hands. Since they couldn’t see germs, they didn’t think they existed. As a result, the high death rate persisted and they kept not washing their hands.

The Doctor Who Championed Hand-Washing And Briefly Saved Lives

In partnerships with narcissists, something similar occurs. Their obsessive disloyalty guarantees constant betrayal. Because they operated as if love, trust, and truth didn’t exist, the narcissist finally betrays, damages, destroys, and wrecks everything. Narcissists live in a spiritual vacuum; they are inherently unfaithful, unloving, untrustworthy, and untruthful. So, everything goes.

If you are certain that someone does not and cannot love you, trust you, or be honest with you, how would you treat them?

The narcissist perceives you that way.

Narcissists are not attempting to defend themselves. They are not revisiting relationships and childhood trauma in an effort to integrate experiences or find equilibrium. They are engaging in a practice of disloyalty. They call it their creed.

It is impossible to practice righteousness without love, faith, and truth. The best a person can be is selectively righteous, which isn’t righteousness at all, since truth is subjective, love is only a phrase or feeling rather than an action, and trust is solely dependent on mood.

If you were able to discover someone who is honest, trustworthy, and loves you unconditionally, how would you treat your spouse?

You would treasure them as much as God’s Kingdom. You would always maintain your trust and patiently wait for them to fulfill their promises. You would only support them in the face of adversity and only believe them when no one else does. They are bound by their word. Whenever there is a side to choose, you will always choose their side.

On the other hand, how would you handle your partner if you thought they were completely unreliable, never showed you affection, and only spoke the truth when they had nothing to lose?

You would handle them similarly to how a narcissist handles their romantic partner.

To trick them long enough to take their gifts, you would lovebomb them.

When you cease acting like you are interacting with someone who is valuable, you wind up devaluing them.

Finally, you throw them out because nobody wants to be with a hater who is unreliable and always lies.

That’s how being unfaithful affects your relationships. on how you behave in social situations. Relationships are destroyed by infidelity. And the route it follows is one of devaluation, discarding, and love bombing.

Relationships need truth, love, and trust to function.

People are not flawless, therefore we deal with a continuum that ranges from total lack of faith, trust, and love to total love and all three. We cannot regard them as if they were God, and we cannot have complete confidence in them, love them without conditions, or trust them without conditions. However, we must love, trust, and believe in people unless we are dealing with a narcissist. The more admirable a person we find, the more we must do so because this is the key to successful relationships (finding a good person, then having faith in them).

Working connections with narcissists are impossible. Narcissists operate at the very worst end of the scale; they have no faith, no truth, no trust, and no love.

All narcissists engage in this behavior, and they don’t need to take the same courses at the same narcissist institution to learn how to lovebomb, devalue, and discard since these three behaviors are just the result of the underlying cause, which is

When you get into partnerships without being faithful, what do you get?