Why Narcissists Don’t Deserve Your Compassion

No.

Only some people are deserving of sympathy.

People that are narcissistic do not deserve love, trust, faith, or compassion. To be more specific, we must not offer them any. at such case, we will put our health, whether it be physical, mental, or emotional, at jeopardy.

To make matters even worse, you would be putting narcissists in danger if you told or encouraged anybody else to show sympathy for them. Irresponsibility of the highest kind. Under the appearance of doing good, you would make the situation worse for everyone.

When you were in the beginning stages of your relationship with the narcissist, did you ever have a close friend or a member of your family try to tell you that there is something very fundamentally wrong with your newly discovered love? However, you made the mistake of disregarding them. And thus the beginning of your years-long misery at the hands of the narcissist boyfriend began from that point? How you long to be able to turn back the hands of time.

Just for a moment, try to picture a scenario in which the same close friend or family member, rather than cautioning you about the potential risks associated with the strange vibe that your newfound love is giving off, instead told you that “everyone deserves compassion, there is good and bad in everyone, nobody is all bad, and so we shouldn’t judge, because everyone is the same.” Imagine how much more gloomy the world would be. There would be one fewer voice of sanity in the room (regardless of whether or not anybody chooses to listen to that voice, at least someone made an effort to warn you).

A society in which every voice that disagrees with the status quo is stifled and every voice chants in unison that “all narcissists deserve compassion”; this would be a sad world. I would consider it to be an extremely dismal possible scenario.

As part of my responsibility to raise awareness about narcissistic abuse, I take a stance that not only do narcissists not deserve any sympathy, but that showing them any compassion puts both ourselves and other people in risk. In the event if we continued to blur the borders between ourselves and flying monkeys and narcissist sympathizers, how would we be able to separate ourselves from those individuals? What is the limit of compassion that is considered excessive? At what point do we decide to stop? A little bit of theft — is that a good thing? What do you think about a little bit of physical abuse? Is there a little murder?

These narcissists are enabled by compassion. Their binging is enabled by it. They get much more severe as a result.

There is a kind of feeling that is referred to as compassion for the devil.

In the event that you have a complete and total comprehension of the accurate notion of the devil, then the thought of showing compassion to such a creature, whether it be conceptual or actual, is a peculiar idea.

I have come to the realization that, in recent times, narratives have made an effort to transform the concept of the devil into a persona who is either cool or sad.

I’m sure that’s a good way to market tales, and I’ve had my fair share of enjoyable experiences reading stories like this.

On the other hand, they are tales; they are forms of pleasure and enjoyment.

It is important to note that when we discuss narcissists, we are referring about actual individuals who are capable of causing real damage to real lives. When we continue to apply the same pattern and lavish sympathy on them, we are playing with fire.

Narcissists should not be treated as characters in a movie or a novel, and you should not execute role reversal or inversion on them without their consent. A idea, a part in a television series, or a character in a comic book are all examples of the devil. A person who is a narcissist is comparable to the one described in the news report that was just presented; they are someone who wreaks havoc.

Please save all of your sympathy for those who have been victimized, are in need, or are disabled. This is not for those who are harsh and vicious.

You should also consider volunteering at a soup kitchen if you believe that you still have an abundance of compassion to spare, even after all of that.

Volunteering sixty hours a week in a soup kitchen is another option if you feel that this does not exhaust all of your compassion.

The fact that compassion is a type of permission, a form of agreement, is ultimately the primary reason I do not agree with being compassionate.

By reaching a consensus, we allowed things to enter.

In addition, because compassion is a type of permission or agreement, narcissists are welcome to participate.

In addition, you do not desire it.

It is your goal to prevent narcissists from gaining access to anything.

A spiritual posture that we should take toward narcissists is one of perpetual reprimand, not consent or agreement, not even moderate consent or token agreement. This is the actual spiritual stance that we should take.

Simply put, they want to get their foot in the door. They want you to put that space between you and them.

In the event that you give them an inch, they will take a mile. A moment later, all of a sudden, they are once again inside your home. In what way did borders disappear? What happened to the non-contact policy?

The purpose of the hoover is to identify any vulnerabilities that may exist around the perimeter.

There is a breach in the perimeter caused by compassion. When seen from a distance, compassion that is benign and unattached constitutes a minute breach in the perimeter. Compassion expressed in whatever form is a breach in the perimeter defenses. It is wise to take advantage of any breach that occurs.

A predator is someone who is narcissistic. The predator moves about the herd in search of opportunities to attack.

I recommend that you pray for your narcissist if you are in dire need of doing anything for them, even if it is something as simple as praying for them. I pray that God would have compassion on them and that He will bless them with an open heart. After that, don’t worry about the rest; instead, give everything to God.

When you show compassion for narcissists in any manner, shape, or form, you are taking control of the situation and changing the course of events. When it comes to narcissists, it is, has always been, and will always be out of your hands (they are incorrigible and are tricksters). This has already been shown beyond a reasonable doubt by the narcissist. Therefore, sympathy is not only meaningless, but it also puts one’s own life in jeopardy.

23 Guard your heart above all else,

for it determines the course of your life.

Bible Gateway passage: Proverbs 4:23 — New Living Translation