As we get older, we realize that it is wise to withdraw from these three circles

People in the old before, there will be a feeling that time flies, always feel that time flies, it is about to enter the ranks of the elderly.

Perhaps, only when one is old can one see clearly some things and understand some truths. Just as there is a saying: "don't listen to the elderly, the loss in front of you", through the ups and downs of life, it is inevitable to find some should not go before the road, so I want to warn young people, hope they can learn from their own life, to avoid some disasters.

In fact, when people are old, they will yearn for a state of mind to put down and long for a peaceful life. Gradually, when they get old, they know that they should quit these three circles when they are young. Although they have understood now, but it is too late to feel, so they will warn the young people below.

But which of the three circles did the old man speak of? You might as well learn about it with me.

One: eat, drink and play circle

If a person always stay in the circle of eating and drinking, it is inevitable that he will waste his time in vain.

When we enter the middle age, life will gradually become stable, no matter it is work, or family, it no longer needs to consume so much energy. Once people have an idle heart, they will gradually lose the motivation to move forward, always feel that life is very happy now, inevitably will fall into the circle of eating and drinking.

It's just that life is not as good as it seems. Nine times out of ten, you think your life will be happy all the time, but when things happen to you, especially when you are stuck in the circle of eating, drinking and playing, it's hard to have the ability and confidence to deal with disasters, and your life will inevitably be down and out.

In fact, the so-called play zone is a bunch of useless deep friendships. If you spend energy in this area, you will inevitably reduce your energy on personal efforts to improve the quality of your life. As a result, you will face a deteriorating life situation and become more and more degraded.

So it's true that the old people are always telling us to stay away from the world of partying. If you stay that way, you'll regret it when you get older.

Two: negative complaining circle

If a person often falls into a negative complaining circle, it is inevitable that he will lose his motivation and become more and more down and out.

As the saying goes, "Keep company with people, and those who stay with ink will always be red." A person who often stays with positive and optimistic people will naturally have a positive attitude towards life and have a better life. If a person stays in a negative complaining circle all day, it is inevitable that he will lose the motivation to improve, and over time he will naturally become down and out.

Life is a process of ups and downs, if you encounter difficulties on all kinds of complaints, but do not know how to rely on efforts to get out of the difficulties, will only get deeper and deeper, and even no longer out of the way.

Most of the time, failure is not terrible, a person in the failure of negative complaints is the most terrible, because it will make a person completely lost, no longer can rely on their own strength to go out, and other people will naturally not reach out to help you, because you are around the same as you negative complaints of people.

If you don't follow her advice, you will inevitably fall into a downbeat and negative situation.

Three: right and wrong circle

A person who often stays in the circle of right and wrong will inevitably be Mired in wrong and wrong, inviting disaster for himself.

In fact, life is indeed accompanied by a lot of right and wrong, such as between friends, neighbors, and even strangers, but these we should not need to intervene in the right and wrong must know how to stay away, otherwise it will affect our life.

Especially if it's not your fault, you should understand the principle of "endure the calm for a while, take a step back" and don't have to compete with each other. Even if you win in the end, what's the point? It's likely to invite more mishaps.

Therefore, it is not unreasonable for the elderly to keep us away from the circle of right and wrong. After all, in meaningless disputes, in addition to letting their emotions out of control and affecting the pace of life, it is harmful and profitable.

Conclusion;

As we get older, we realize that quitting these three circles is the wisest choice.

Life will inevitably meet all kinds of people, this time we have to understand the withdrawal from the circle of eating and drinking, let life become more delicate; The road of life is not without ups and downs, at this time we should quit the negative complaining circle, let life more wonderful; The road of life can not be far away from right and wrong, but we have to know how to withdraw from the circle of right and wrong, so that life is more tolerant.