When People Hate You?
There are two different dynamics
You know when a person resents you?
There are two situations.
You are related to people in different ways.
If it's a relationship based on expectations,
they might resent you
when you don’t fulfill those motivations—
like giving dowry,
earning a high salary,
begeting a boy child,
looking good,
adding to their fame,
all about resolving their insecurities.
If it’s not a relationship based on expectations,
then you should not make them feel small—
I often notice this on social media.
People who feel threatened, stay distant.
They don’t want to bruise their own ego.
Psychology is fascinating.
Learn it.
Understand people.
Hone your emotional intelligence.
About the Creator
Seema Patel
Hi, I am Seema. I have been writing on the internet for 15 years. I have contributed to PubMed, Blogger, Medium, LinkedIn, Substack, and Amazon KDP.
I write about nature, health, parenting, creativity, gardening, and psychology.
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Comments (1)
One should learn all they can to be a friend of many ways to whomever may need a friend. Good job.