The Harmony of Difference: Embracing Unique Paths

Living conditions and individual goals are different for everyone. Everyone has his or her unique wants and needs, and everyone in society occupies their own specific place in the world. Using the fruits of the hearts to cultivate ourselves, or imposing our self-image onto others is not only unproductive but invasive.

Thus, life in fact is in its very nature flawed. Everyone has failures, struggles, and concerns, and they all manage their own personal lives.

People should not waste their energy in talking to those they do not seem to have any compatibility with, such talks usually cause negative feelings. It is our differences and our goals that determine our choices. It is unnecessary to push for acceptance and appreciation or try to explain something to any person.

We cannot make others' journeys standard with ours. What a great street for us is maybe a road through hell for the other person. These summary points apply both to the case of marriage and other relationships: Our vision that is part of a full and happy life may seem like a rigid cage for another person.

If your thinking is not similar focus; if your three opinions are not on par, laugh. The biggest lesson I have learned about how people should or should not be around is to be as polite or possibly even better than a local.

It is the desire of everyone to be a positive influence in other people’s lives as they are during sunny days and at other times when they are surrounded by distress.

Thank you for reading!