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The Art of Energetic Boundaries: A Solitary Path to Peace

Filtering, Not Fixing: Navigating Relationships in the Adult World

By Emily Chan - Life and love sharingPublished 10 months ago 1 min read
The Art of Energetic Boundaries: A Solitary Path to Peace
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I will abandon anyone who influences me negatively, and I will stay away from anyone who belittles me. Following these two sentences can reduce 90% of the troubles in life. We cannot choose who we meet, but we can decide who we walk with. When facing other people's comments, you just need to ask back lightly, "So what?"

Don't be enslaved by comments. I won't join your game, so whatever you say is useless. Psychologist Horney said: The biggest distance between people is not status, wealth, education, or beauty, but values. The three views are a person’s magnetic field. Those who understand you are happy even without words. For those who don’t understand you, it is useless to say more. The ideas are different, and they go in different directions.

Throughout our lives, we are all looking for someone who is close to our soul, but in the end, we find that the only one who truly fits is ourselves. If you don't hesitate to make a decision when you should, you will suffer the consequences. Give up those who make you tired.

End those relationships that make you miserable. Only by saying goodbye to an unworthy relationship can you move towards a better life. You are you, no matter who you are; please always love yourself. Being happy means that you don't need to care about others; let the sun revolve around you.

Thank you for reading!

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Emily Chan - Life and love sharing

Blog Writer/Storyteller/Write stores and short srories.I am a writer who specializes in love,relationships and life sharing

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