The Alchemy of Becoming
This poem explores the transformative journey of becoming a lover, not just in a romantic sense, but in the broader context of embracing vulnerability, empathy, and authentic connection with another soul. It suggests that loving is a process of self-discovery and continuous growth, demanding courage, honesty, and a willingness to shed one's protective layers.

First, dismantle the fortress you call heart.
Let the stones fall, revealing tender earth beneath,
Where wildflowers of vulnerability can start
To push through cracks, defying frozen sheath.
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Then, learn the language spoken in the eyes,
The subtle shifts of pupils, light, and shade.
Forget the rehearsed lines, the practiced lies;
Speak only truth, though trembling and afraid.
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Next, offer silence as a precious gift,
A space where echoes of the soul can ring.
Resist the urge to judge, to quickly sift,
Just listen closely to what sorrows sing.
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Embrace the awkward dance of clumsy hands,
The hesitant touch, the fumbled, whispered plea.
For in imperfection, true connection stands,
A testament to raw authenticity.
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Dare to reveal the shadows you conceal,
The hidden fears that claw and grip within.
For only then can wounds begin to heal,
And love's true, radiant work can then begin.
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Finally, surrender to the boundless sea,
Where two souls merge, becoming something new.
No longer bound by rigid identity,
But intertwined, like morning's gentle dew.
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Becoming lover is not a single stride,
But a slow, deliberate, sacred art.
A lifetime spent with nothing left to hide,
A beating, open, ever-giving heart.
About the Creator
Xavier
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Comments (1)
True love involves growth and authenticity, and that embracing our fears can lead to the most meaningful bonds.