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Shouldn't Every Girl Define Her Own Happiness?

Embracing Authenticity and Rejecting Societal Pressures for a Fulfilling Life

By Emily Chan - Life and love sharingPublished 8 months ago 1 min read
Shouldn't Every Girl Define Her Own Happiness?
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Girls, why is it so important to be yourself and love yourself?

Your life, your choice

Whether it is marriage, having children, career, or lifestyle, it should be decided by oneself, not by society's expectations. Other people’s lives are not the same as your life, and your standard of happiness should not be defined by others.

Only by not pleasing others and not compromising can you live a light life.

Sometimes pressure comes from "what others expect you to do" rather than what you really want to do. Be brave in selecting interpersonal relationships and stay away from unsuitable ones. Then the aura around you will be cleaner, and your life will be smoother.

When your heart is free, your life will be free.

Many people live in a world of "shoulds," thinking that they should get married, have children, and give up themselves for others. But true happiness comes from being true to yourself. When you love yourself, no matter what kind of life you choose, you can be happy from the bottom of your heart.

Every girl deserves the right to choose!

In this world, there is no so-called "standard life," only a life that suits yourself. If you want to get married and have children, then go after that happiness. If you don't want to, then be brave and choose your own path.

To love yourself means not forcing yourself or feeling wronged, and allowing yourself to live comfortably and freely. This is the most precious thing in life!

Thank you for reading!

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About the Creator

Emily Chan - Life and love sharing

Blog Writer/Storyteller/Write stores and short srories.I am a writer who specializes in love,relationships and life sharing

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