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Self-Reliance and Strength

Embracing Independence, Overcoming Hardships, and Cultivating a Life of Passion

By Emily Chan - Life and love sharingPublished 11 months ago 2 min read
Self-Reliance and Strength
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It is a particularly terrifying thing for a person to truly become independent because there is nothing to expect and nothing to fear. From that moment on, their focus shifts entirely inward.

In truth, we already know all there is to know about life, so there’s no need to dwell too much on sentimentality. A little stubbornness can help you weather any storm.

Please, take responsibility for yourself. Don’t just live—live passionately and vigorously. Be brave and avoid relying too much on others for guidance.

Live each day with purpose. Do your job to the best of your ability, and you’ll honor the expectations of heaven and earth.

During the darkest periods of my life, I pulled myself out of the abyss. If there was no one to save me, I became that person for myself.

No matter what kind of life we live, I believe in the promise of a bright future. We often focus on what we lack and miss out on appreciating what we already have.

If you feel exhausted, give yourself permission to rest. Don’t be too hard on yourself. I know how much effort you’ve put into reaching where you are now.

The world seldom cares about how painful the journey to self-improvement is. It only wants to know if you’re good enough now. Everyone desires a mature and wise version of you but doesn’t want to invest time and energy in helping you grow.

What you call confusion is simply the experience of watching yourself sink while remaining painfully aware. What you call decency is the restraint not to express or act on every impulse.

When you are financially independent and have explored the world, you’ll stop worrying about whether someone loves you. Instead, you’ll learn to love the mountains, the rivers, the people around you, and most importantly, yourself.

Your efforts today lay the groundwork for tomorrow’s luck. What you strive for now will eventually blossom into something beautiful. Let us work with hope and patiently wait for good things to appear.

If you are on your own, live with strength and grace. Be independent and resilient. Don’t expect anyone to solve all your problems for you.

Focus on your work, learn how to earn a living, or open yourself to meeting new people. If you prefer, stay in your world and guard your peace. Stick to your unique style and don’t let anyone change it.

I know you’re going through a rough patch right now, but hold on a little longer—it will pass. Your task now is to study and work hard, to enrich and improve yourself, rather than worrying about time slipping away.

Don’t feel disheartened or indifferent about your future, thinking that success will come easily. There’s no such thing as overnight success. Great achievements are only possible through consistent effort over time.

Thank you for reading!

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About the Creator

Emily Chan - Life and love sharing

Blog Writer/Storyteller/Write stores and short srories.I am a writer who specializes in love,relationships and life sharing

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