Power in "I Don't Want"

A super powerful mentality: I don’t want it anymore.

When I told myself, 'I don’t want it anymore,' I felt relieved at that moment. We often get anxious, internally consumed, and twisted about certain people and things, and can’t break free. In fact, this is normal. Everyone will experience this and say to themselves, 'I don’t want it anymore!'

The sense of power at this moment is particularly strong. You really can't dwell on bad people and bad things. It will only cause physical and mental harm. When you let go of your expectations and needs from others, and let go of the harshness you place on yourself, you will find that things become beautiful in an instant. When you are particularly entangled in whether a relationship should continue, or when something has no resolution, you will fall into endless internal conflict. At this time, tell yourself: 'At worst, I don’t want it!'

Learning to give up is a great thing:

Give up a relationship that consumes you.

Give up an unwilling obsession.

Give up something that you can’t get even if you work hard.

Give up unrealistic fantasies.

Give up the past that you hold tightly.

Let go of a life that doesn’t suit you.

The word 'giving up' seems a bit depressing, but giving up also means a new beginning. It means you will gain more new things. The more you want, the more pain you will suffer. Tell yourself: 'I don’t want it anymore.' Don’t let yourself fall into anxiety because of trivial things. Stop consuming yourself. If you have done your best, you don’t have to worry about not doing well enough. As long as you keep growing, you will definitely meet a better self. Don’t please anyone. The world is very noisy; just be yourself. We will never be able to meet everyone's requirements throughout our lives.

Facing love:

If what you give me is the same as what you give to others, then I don’t want it.

When choosing between two options, I will choose to leave by myself.

Facing friendship:

If you can stay away from me because of others, it means I am not your first choice; I don’t want it anymore.

Accept that you are not valued.

Accept that your efforts are not rewarded.

Accept that your sincerity is misplaced.

Tell yourself: 'I don’t want it anymore!' The feeling of power at this moment is so strong that you will suddenly feel that the weight in your heart is gone. You really can't dwell on bad people and bad things. It’s useless. You must try to say to yourself more often: 'At worst, I don’t want it anymore!

Thank you for reading!