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Never Blame Anyone in Your Life: Every Encounter Has Value

Embrace Every Encounter Finding Value in All Experiences

By Mohammad UsmanPublished about a year ago 4 min read

The presence of life means that it is a web of interactions with different people and various events. Each of the individuals we come across and each of the interactions we end up having are crucial to our story. It is important not to hold others responsible for the push and pull factors that define our existence in the world, but rather to appreciate everybody’s contribution. That way, every lesson from a particular experience is incorporated, effectively making life happier and more enduring.

Good People Give You HAPPINESS: Good people are said to put smiles on the faces of those around them and make the world a better place. They are the people who care for us, our loved ones, and the few good souls out there who brighten up our day. Family members are always there for us; they help us in difficult moments and rejoice in joyful moments. Their messages are the best reminders about how important it is to have as many good people in our lives as possible. Embrace these relationships, for they hold the key to our emotional health and serve as a gentle prod to look at the brighter side of life.

Bad People Give You EXPERIENCE: Although good people are a source of joy in life, bad people teach valuable lessons in life. These are the ones that make us rise to the occasion and push us to the limits, the ones that can be frustrating, and the ones that can even hurt us. Though they sometimes inflict pain, they are lessons for the journey called life. Encounters with negative individuals are a way to learn how to be strong, how to understand others, and that it is okay to say no. They make us change our minds, and most of the time, they are good for character. In overcoming such difficulties, we gain new tools for coping with the ordinary demands and dangers of existence.

Worst People Give You a LESSON: This is another wise adage that means that if you take a close look at things people say and do to you, sometimes it is the worst people in a given society who are going to teach you the best and priceless lessons in your life. Such people might let us down, deceive us, or inflict deep hurt on us in some ways. People should not spend their time hating that they have been duped, as this is useless; instead, people should consider the experiences as lessons learned. They are explaining to them about the evil lurking within the world and the need to be on the lookout for it. These kinds of desperate lessons are the ones that propel us towards reflection and change. It helps us get on the path towards healing, trusting our inner selves, and learning how to become better prepared and proactive in protecting ourselves from ourselves and others if there is a chance of being harmed in the future. Finally, the worst people contribute to our wisdom and help us be more careful in our future lives, and people learn from the challenges life offers them.

The Best People Give You MEMORIES: Some of the best individuals in our lives are those who can touch us by creating memories that cannot be erased. These are friends who are always there for us no matter what circumstance, celebrate with us at our best moments, and even stick it out with us at our worst. These relationships involve respect, love, and understanding of each other as male or female in a given society. Most people hold on to the fondest memories of these great people because such memories help warm up their cold hearts during moments of loneliness. They make us act crazy, dance, laugh, sing, and draw attention to the moments in which we are happier, cherished, and valued. Such special moments are the moments that form a part of our individualistic self-identity and the definition of the self-sufficiency concept of happiness.

Embrace Every Encounter: It is unreasonable to complain about or make others responsible for the undesirable aspects of our lives; what is much more fulfilling is to seek a positive experience in every communication. All individuals that we interact with throughout our lives friends, colleagues, and those hostile to us are good to us, as they are helping us to grow and develop as people. Looking at life in this way, we can turn the destructive cynical view of bitterness into nothing but noble wisdom and the destructive resentful view of the world into nothing but gratitude. Each interaction should be viewed as a means to arrive at new experiences and make each day more fulfilling.

CONCLUSION: No matter how much you are angry or stressed, never blame anyone in your life. This involves people who give joy, people who make life difficult, the ones who make you learn a lesson, and people you are grateful to have met in your life. All of them are important and add to the overall fabric of your existence and the string of experiences in your life. Cultivating positive emotions and chasing positive experiences can be an effective way towards a happier and stronger life for every individual by learning from every single person you meet.

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About the Creator

Mohammad Usman

I am a poet whose poetry expresses the essence of love, grief, and nature. Their poetry, published in a variety of literary periodicals, allows readers to delve into the depths of human passion and the beauty of existence.

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  • Dharrsheena Raja Segarranabout a year ago

    Hey, just wanna let you know that this is more suitable to be posted in the Humans community 😊

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