Master the laws and reap the rewards of relationships

Dale Carnegie, the famous American psychologist, and interpersonal scientist, once said this: "A person's success, 15% by expertise, 85% by harmonious interpersonal interactions."

Good interpersonal relationships are the shortcut to everything, and to become happy, we must and must step into interpersonal relationships.

Good interpersonal relationships are not difficult to have, really smart people, have long ago mastered the skills.

The law of square and round, one cannot be too square or too round, because the former will hurt people and the latter will keep them away from you. There are many demands in life that we are not willing to accept, but a straightforward refusal will inevitably hurt others and leave the impression that the angles are too distinct.

But being a nice guy who says yes to everything can easily make people feel hypocritical. Therefore, too square or too round is not the way to deal with the world, it is better to be an ellipse. When refusing people, we should be careful about the way, and our colleagues should take care of their own and each other's emotions to maintain their interests and make others happy to accept.

First, express yourself sincerely with respect.

If you are my best friend, some aspects of our personalities are not a good match, it is not suitable to be lovers, let's continue to be good friends, okay?

The combination of square and circle will eventually become an ellipse, this is the true meaning of life.

Tolerance is the highest virtue in people's lives. It is not surprising that everyone has their strengths and weaknesses. In reality, everyone will have the time to be unsatisfactory or fail, and when you face these difficulties and do your best to overcome the barrier, how to do tolerance is a vast sea, inclusive of everything, but also can solve everything. Therefore, life needs tolerance, she is a silent education.

The old saying often says: "There is tolerance." Treating people with tolerance is a kind of life creed.

However, in human interaction, many people's tolerant, but often give the wrong object. Too polite to strangers, too harsh to close people. The hearts of those who love you are broken, but the strangers do not necessarily appreciate it.

Tolerance is not a weakness, but cultivation, a quality, but also a virtue.

Tolerance is like a fine rain that nourishes the earth, it blesses the tolerant person, and at the same time, it also nourishes the tolerant person.

Jealousy, we often call it "red-eye". Jealous people often see no good in others, and even try to destroy the happiness of others, and make bad words about others.

There is a strange phenomenon in life. Girls praise the beauty of the stars, but are jealous of the beauty around them; people give a thumbs up to those rich people who make money but are jealous of their next-door neighbors who make a few hundred thousand.

This phenomenon is the "law of jealousy" that we are going to talk about today: people are often jealous not of the prosperity of strangers, but the prosperity of people around them.

Therefore, jealousy often occurs between best friends, such as girlfriends and buddies. This is also the reason why many friends can share the hardship but not the wealth.

Some people say, "Jealousy is a knife that ends up either in someone else's body or in your own heart." This is true, the harm of jealousy is indeed very great.

In life, we should cultivate ourselves well to make ourselves less jealous, and learn to collect ourselves to reduce others' jealousy of us. For the rest of your life, may there be no jealousy around you?

The beginning of all altruistic thoughts, words, and actions is to accept everything about yourself and love yourself sincerely. Only then can you love others and love the world, and only then can you have true joy, stability, and fearlessness and be broad-minded. You cannot truly like others if you do not like them and are not satisfied with yourself. This is a very important point. Some people equate loving yourself with being selfish and self-serving, which is a misconception. If you experience it carefully, you will find that if you don't like it and are dissatisfied with yourself, you will easily develop jealousy and resentment. You are one of the sentient beings, so why exclude yourself while loving them? So please get to know yourself well and make good friends with yourself first before you talk about loving other sentient beings.

Only good social relationships are the best way for us to talk to the outside world and to get in touch with ourselves! Socializing is tiring because everyone tries to express themselves.